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RE: BBBJs and DFK
Packet Man 3503 reads
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Yes it's my alias. I don't want to piss off the wrong people with this question.

I pay for VIP to read reviews. I'm seeing lots of ladies who give BBBJs and DFK. That sounds great until I think about the guy who just left 20 minutes before I show up. What do some of you experenced guys thnk about this?

I don't like the idea of DFK or even LFK after some dude's dick was just sucked by that mouth. So I know some people here, hobbiests and providers alike, will tell me not to engage in that activity. Okay. Got it. But the reviews are full of BBBJs and DFK. So aren't others worried too? STDs seem inevitable doing this. Or am I totally off base?

Here's a scenario. What if the provider bites her tongue at breakfast and you have a 3:00 pm appointment? She's seen a couple of clients by then. See where I'm going?

Please give me some feedback on this.

Thank you.

scoed1054 reads

There is the STD risk, which is never zero no matter how safe both people play, you have the LE risk. the dangerous provider risk, and the being outed risk. Hell there is even some risk of pregnancy. If you want safety this is not where you find it.

That being said, even though I do not engage, DFK is likely the safest part of the encounter even if you are the 10th guy of the day. Getting a BBBJ, DATY, and covered FS/anal are all riskier. See STD cart below. Kissing is considered a safer sex act with low STD risks.

If you play safe, get tested often, and see ladies that are professional in how they run there business it will greatly reduce the risks. Do not do anything you do not feel comfortable with. Everything in the hobby is a calculated risk. There is no such thing as safe sex, just safer sex.

If kissing a provider bothers you, don't do it. But it is still one of the safest things you are likely to do.

Have fun and play safe.

Related Link: STD risk chart

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inicky46694 reads

Even with DFK/LFK there's always the risk of Herpes type I.  This is true even if there are no visible sores.

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scoed1074 reads

HSV-1 has more ways to spread then just sex and kissing. There is a reason most people have it. The lost estimated I have seen on HSV-1 is 60% but I have seen studies as high 98% of american are positive for HSV-1. Heck here is a fun quote on the numbers from the American Society for Microbiology.

"Using type-specific serologic assays, the seroprevalence of HSV-1 infections in the United States has been redefined utilizing sera obtained from the randomized National Health and Nutrition Examination Survey (37, 64). By the age of 5 years, over 35% of black children and 18% of white children are infected by HSV-1. Through adolescence, blacks have approximately a twofold higher prevalence of antibodies to HSV-1 than do whites, and females have a slightly higher antibody prevalence than do males. By the age of 40 years, both blacks and whites have a similar prevalence of antibodies, with 70 to 80% being HSV-1 seropositive. A similarly high prevalence of antibodies to HSV-1 exists among persons worldwide, although a high degree of country-to-country variability is seen."*

If 18% of white 5 year olds and 35% of black 5 year olds has the condition, it isn't just an STD. Nothing in life is with out risk. Besides odds are he already has HSV=1 as most people do and doesn't know it.

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inicky46830 reads

Sure, scoed, but there are also levels of risk and DFK would be at the high end.  Besides, what "utensils" would you be sharing with a provider, unless you took her out to dinner?

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Timberk754 reads

I can name one utensil I share without taking her to dinner
-Giggidy

Addition to bucket list: share "utensil" at a dinner

Posted By: inicky46
Sure, scoed, but there are also levels of risk and DFK would be at the high end.  Besides, what "utensils" would you be sharing with a provider, unless you took her out to dinner?
Related Link: Utensil

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jblinguist829 reads

Scheduling a more exclusive provider (which may mean paying more) and requesting a first of the day appointment are some other ways to at least eliminate some of Newbie's concerns.  Be open with the provider and let her know "you've been saving up for a nice time" and would like to meet her when she is fresh, relaxed and well rested so that she can enjoy the time too".  Express it properly and sincerely and she may appreciate your honesty and desire.

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nahtynikkey977 reads

Or, you could always just see providers that only provide CBJ.

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M3N123955 reads

I am concerned about stds from a girl who gives bbbjs. But I would rather get an std than lfk or dfk a girl who has had a dick in her mouth an hour before and two hundred in the past year. NOW I HAVE TO SAY THESE ARE MY OWN OPINONS AND THE LEVEL OF RISK I AM PREPARED TO DEAL WITH.
I have no problem finding girls who only give covered bjs. Most of them are young and new to the business. This is fine with me. I love banging pretty 22 year olds. Many of them are happy to take instruction which gives me a kick. Hey, but that's just me, right? I live in LA where the choice is large and you may have a more limited choice. The worst case for you may be a cbj and no kissing. But hey life is hard.

Posted By: Packet Man
Yes it's my alias. I don't want to piss off the wrong people with this question.

I pay for VIP to read reviews. I'm seeing lots of ladies who give BBBJs and DFK. That sounds great until I think about the guy who just left 20 minutes before I show up. What do some of you experenced guys thnk about this?

I don't like the idea of DFK or even LFK after some dude's dick was just sucked by that mouth. So I know some people here, hobbiests and providers alike, will tell me not to engage in that activity. Okay. Got it. But the reviews are full of BBBJs and DFK. So aren't others worried too? STDs seem inevitable doing this. Or am I totally off base?

Here's a scenario. What if the provider bites her tongue at breakfast and you have a 3:00 pm appointment? She's seen a couple of clients by then. See where I'm going?

Please give me some feedback on this.

Thank you.

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