It was suggested that if there are no visible open sores, the risk of catching an infection is low. While, you can see if there are any visible sores near the mouth and genital area of the provider, how can you be sure of inside the mouth, without really asking?
I have always rinsed my mouth with a cup or two of listerine and showered and cleaned the genital area with purell after a dfk, bbbj and daty. Sometimes, it has not been until about couple of hours later. Does anyone else do this, or am I being overcautious?
Finally, do the agencies take any steps to ensure that the providers that they represent are low risk? I have used the same highly recommended higher end agency in the Boston area that bostonguy57 has also used.
With relatively higher end providers ($$$, $$$$) what is the practical risk of BBBJ. I am all about being safe. Do any experienced hobbyists get these a lot. Have many paid the price. I just want some info from the guys that have been around for awhile. Same question about DATY. I just want to know what the experienced hobbyists think. Thanks
There is never such a thing as no risk at all but I have engaged in BBBJ and DATY for many years with higher end providers and never had any problems. I see intelligent mature women who care about their bodies and are well aware of the potential risks involved with seeing multiple partners. I don't mean to imply that a lower priced lady may not exercise the same caution, in fact, since many cheaper providers are CBJ and one and done with no DATY allowed they may in fact be lower risk....not nearly as much fun of course.
The bottom line is that there are various risks associated with any kind of uncovered sexual contact. You ultimately have to decide what you are comfortable with.
It was suggested that if there are no visible open sores, the risk of catching an infection is low. While, you can see if there are any visible sores near the mouth and genital area of the provider, how can you be sure of inside the mouth, without really asking?
I have always rinsed my mouth with a cup or two of listerine and showered and cleaned the genital area with purell after a dfk, bbbj and daty. Sometimes, it has not been until about couple of hours later. Does anyone else do this, or am I being overcautious?
Finally, do the agencies take any steps to ensure that the providers that they represent are low risk? I have used the same highly recommended higher end agency in the Boston area that bostonguy57 has also used.
I am by no means trying to pass myself off as an expert here. Just responding to the question with what has worked for me. As far as DFK the same holds true as far as my past experiences. I've done it for years and never had an issue. I have never heard of an agency that asked for any information form providers regarding health issues. Frankly I doubt they exist. The agency's job is to put you and the lady in the same room together. That's it! What happens between two consenting adults is the responsibility of those two consenting adults. As I said earlier, I see intelligent women who care about their life and livelihood. You have much less to worry about with a smart provider than you do with a civie lady and a bar pick-up.
The risks for receiving an STI from a a bbbj are negligible but do beware of any sores or cancers as they are definite signs that bbbj (and dfk, lfk) should be avoided (we don't want herpes now do we?).
Technically you could get gonorrhea but the giver would have a nasty throat infection if she had oral gonorrhea.
You do not have to worry about HIV as saliva does not carry the HIV virus so we are back to making sure there are no sores or cuts in or around the mouth...
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