A reference a provider needs isn't what you think.

I would suggest you read the post below yours as it sounds like you don't know what you are asking or doing.

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I think you will find it no problem at all for the ladies....They depend on each other for references for their own safety.

Your situation is unclear to me. Is a lady you want to see asking you to give her the names and contact info of other providers you have seen? If so, that's very common.

If you're concerned about the ladies who are vouching for you (that is, your references) getting annoyed at having to reply to the lady you want to see, don't worry about that. Most of us are quite happy to help each other out.

Either way, I can't see how it would require you, the client, to make any additional calls or answer emails (other than the ONE which contains the names and contact info) so maybe my interpretation of your post is incorrect!