I'm new to the entire world of erotic services. I'm in the Atlanta area and I'm trying to find a girl who will provide all the benefits of a girlfriend. I mean all.

How can I be assured a girl is that kind of escort? Is there a way to ask? (Edited By Mod - No recommendations of specific providers in specific areas are allowed) I've been using www.eros-atlanta.com, but haven't had much luck. What are some things a first-timer should keep in mind if using erotic services?

-- Modified on 7/6/2009 4:13:46 PM

Using a site like eros.com is fine, but make sure they have reviews on here and tehy are good reviews.

Click on "Search Reviews".  You will find filters to find gals in various cities, and be able to tailor your search to all the many parameters you will find filters for.

You then hit "search" and voila:  Up pop profiles of gals complete with their reviews, and links to their sites.

What could be easier?

Ah, but that requires I pay that darn monthly fee. This is (for now) a one time thing. Or can you do short-term VIP?

...You do have to cancel it otherwise it will automatically renew.

Assuming I find a girl from elsewhere, such as ErosGuide, what things can I ask or pay attention to if I want to know if a girl is legitimate?

You are trying to find a shortcut and there isn't one. Most girls will hang up on you if you start asking specific questions and many of the ones who don't will lie to you.  

The reviews here on TER are written by guys who have actually been with the women that they have reviewed.  There are no shortcuts or magic questions to be asked.  When you see a girl with no reviews you are rolling the dice every time.

You can always see the numerical ratings of all the gals as well as the introduction to the review where most reviewers at least give a thumbs up or down statement about the gal.

This is often enough to know that she is legitimate, but you won't know exactly what services are offered.

In all honesty, this is how I operated the first year or so until I finally came to the conclusion that it was worth it to pay up and really get my money's worth from every encounter.

As far as you insisting that this will be a one time thing, do you remember the tag line from the old Lays Potato Chip ads?

"Bet you can't eat just one!"

Believe me, it applies here.

I'm a poor college student, so this will have to be a one time thing until I get a higher paying job (or a job ATM) haha.

A lot of crack addicts can't afford their nirvana either, but it doesn't stop them.

These guys are giving you excellent advice.

You will, of course, want to study the Newbie Manual, the link for which is at the top of this page.

It will allow you to get your money's worth and avoid disaster.

You should also know that many gals won't see guys under age 30.  The Newbie Manual has strategies to cope with that situation.

Don't look as the money you spend as a fee; think of it as tuition!

I manned up and got a VIP membership. What can I do with it?

You can use it to search for ladies that meet your criteria and read full reviews by other men who have seen them...

These reviews are great, finally settled on one, going tonight. Is there an etiquette concerning what you should wear? Can I just go casual, but nice?