Hey everyone-

there are a few providers i wish to make an appointment with that only do out calls. Obviously this means I have to spring for a hotel. This is going to sound like a stupid question, but how exactly do i go about this?
what kind of hotel do you usually book?
how do you reserve a hotel room without using a credit card?
what kind of questions should i be prepared for (like 'how many guests will be staying' etc.)?
after the appointment is up, do you check out and go or stay the night?
don't you have to give them info like address, name, etc.
how do i go about this while remaining anonymous?

thanks everyone! I know I'm asking a lot of questions lately but I'm gearing up for my first time (finally) and i want to do it right and safe.

Start by asking the lady if she has any suggestions for a good but decent priced hotel in your area (or her area), she might have one that she prefers over others.

Some hotels do take cash -  I've rented rooms with just my DL and cash when a gentleman asked me to book the room for him.

1.Somebody needs to sport a credit card or you won't get a room and it probably is not going to be your date.

2.As long as there is an "H" in front of the 'otel' instead of an "M", you should be fine.
It doesn't need to be the Ritz, but clean sheets, amenities (as in NOT having someone elses pubic hair in the previously used bar of soap) in a safe neighborhood is a must.

3. Please see 1.

4.You aren't going to be giving your friend a key to your room and you will probably not be signing in at the front desk together, so it's only you. You'll either meet your friend in the lounge for a cocktail or give her the room number at a later point in time, once she arrives.

5. Check out if you like or stay the night. I have clients that do both.

6. The hotel staff will need to see your drivers license to make sure the name on your credit card is the same.

7. Lastly, not to disappoint you but you don't get to remain anonymous, at least to the hotel staff, but you can with your date.

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well they don't ask how many guests they'll ask how many keys you need, just say just one is all.
Book online through Priceline get a great deal on the hotel.
you could ask her to get the hotel and pay her for the room if you'd like that keeps you out of the mix all together.
Check in with your "gym bag" of sorts, see the lady and walk away no checking out needed unless of course you want to stay the night.
Believe me they are not watching your comings and goings and have no idea when you left, nor do they care.

I suggest a 3plus star hotel great deals on priceline for those and they are fairly busy if they do conferences and what not.

The hotel will want to take a deposit from your credit/debit card or you can put down a cash deposit but that would mean you need to check out also.

Planning ahead is key, get a MC visa greendot card. You need to load it and register it but once that happens theres no trail back to you as long as your statements go elsewhere other than home, like a post office box.

Theres always a paper trail if you put your name on anything, like a hotel reservation. I suggest if your risk is high...see incall providers only.

You might be able to get her to book the room...  providers are skilled at that.  Then it's in her name.  You will reimbuse her, of course.  
If it's in your name, do not leave her in possesion of your room.  Bad things can follow you home.  
You can often pay cash but will typically need a CC to guarentee any damages & room charges.  If you pay in advance with cash & leave the key in the room, you need not stay the night unless you want to.  You will need to keep your reciept until you are sure no charges have been mistakenly added to your CC.  
There are lots of rooms rented to guys who meet their GFs (mistresses)...  That's not the hotel's business.  Single rendezvous do not attract attention...  a string of people do.
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google "short stays" they usually dont ask too many questions...

If you are in nyc, hit me up, and Ill give you a list

i do not recommend that at all.
Just see an incall provider one who uses a reg Hotel 3plus star hotel and is low volume as well.
short stay hotels are frequented by escorts. Obviously if you are not staying the night they know what you are up to.