for discounted rates gets deleted.

a polite, clear request with the info that i require (name, ter handle, reference info INCLUDING the providers name, area, website info I respond to right away.

what i ALSO DONT get is when TER members with several or more reviews and/or white lists (who know the "Usual" process of what gals require) ONLY  e mail me their TER handle.......AT least please send me a PM so I know that it is in fact you/that handle......

All emails requesting explicit acts, telling me how "huge" your private parts are or worse nude pics, will guarantee a delete. If you type in all caps or I simply can't understand what you are talking about, you will also get deleted.
If you sound rude, obnoxious or arrogant...delete.
An email that tells me a bit about yourself, name, age, when you will be visiting my city, where you saw my ad, will always get a response, either to tell you I am available or not available at that time.
Simple common sense and a bit of courtesy will go along way with me.

...I'm lucky and rarely get anything outright rude or graphic. I will usually reply if only to briefly let him know I don't think we'd be compatible. Further emails from gentlemen I don't want to see don't get replies, though.

What gets my attention (in a positive way) is a brief note with a basic description of who he is, what he's looking for, and when he's possibly available. Bonus points if he's included screening info, though I understand if he'd prefer to wait and see if I'll likely be available first. Extra bonus points for articulate flattery.

If your first email is longer than, say, this post, you need to edit it! I read novels before bedtime; don't put me to sleep.

I'm very picky.


I will delete emails that ask for specific sex acts, bareback requests, etc. I also delete the emails which have incorrect spelling and grammar.

I always reply to my regulars. I take my time in replying to the rest. You have to remember, some of us are getting between 20-100 emails a day. There's no way I could reply to all of the emails and see every client who is interested.

Obviously rude/bbbs emails get deleted. 5 percent

Marketing emails def get deleted. Another 5 percent or so

Requests for dates with incomplete info get standart reply asking for more info. 30 - 40 percent

And of course e mails from regulars and appointment inquiries with all relevant info get answered immediately.


Lina