Hi,

My name is xxxxx and I'm known on TER as Tygerr69.  I saw your site (or ad) on xxxxxx and I would love to see you.  Are you available on (date and time) for an x hour length appointment?

I saw your screening requirements and here is the information you requested:

(give all requested info including references.)

I hope to hear from you soon.

(supply syrupy closing)

(your name)

This is what I do, and it works every time.






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What do you say on your first email to a provider? I know not to discuss money, services, GFE, etc. I don't want to cause any issues or be rejected. How long does the communication go before things are set up. I guess what I'm asking...what would be a normal interaction by email and phone?  Thanks newbie

Perfect!  Do you mention you want to do an outcall and the place? Thanks

This is how i do it

Hi (provider),

My name is XXXX and i would like a (amount of time) outcall date on (date) at (time) wondering if your available.
referrences
1) P411
2) TER
3) Or what ever else you can provide

Thank you for your time
XXXXX

only gets a B+ for his mostly perfect response to your original question.

Name or board handle and SHORT introduction, not a damn novel about your life, your wife, where you went to school and what you fed your dog that morning. Just "Hi, my name is such and such, my board handle on TER is x, I am also on P411 and here is my ID. Would love to see you for an incall in New Orleans on Feb. 21st, at 4 p.m. or whatever time is good for you, and I would like the 3 hour dinner date.  My references are________-, their websites are________-."

That's a rap. I cannot stand when a guy does not put a "when," "what," and "where." I went back and forth with some idiot thinking I was in Memphis because of a "Travel ONLY" ad, and he thought I was actually in town! Literally, an hour before I am about to provide one of my incall locations in New Orleans, he says, "Are you off Popular?" Freakin doofus...can your read the words in bold print that say I AM NOT IN TOWN, BUT WILL TRAVEL THERE!!! I spent 3 hours getting ready for a date, because of illiteracy! Now, I make sure to ASK every client what city, just in case lol.

She needs to know what city, what date, what time and what package you want in addition to your screening information. ALWAYS include screening info. in the very FIRST email...ALWAYS! This gets your mail to priority status, because she knows you're not some time wasting moron, she is going to have to pull info. from. If you are giving her personal info. you don't have to put all of that in there, but TELL HER in the first email you're new and want to make sure she is available before you give our such details.



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That sucks..that is exactly why  I want to follow protocal and not cause any problems for both sides. Excellent information again by all! Just being a newbie I want to do what is correct. I think I can speak for all us newbies out there, you all provide great info to make this a pleasurable experience and thanks for the time to respond to all our notes.

Hello,

I was writing in regards to your ad.  I wanted to get more information about scheduling an appointment.

I am a professional and respectful man in my 30s working in advertising.

Please let me know what you need from me.

Thanks.  Hope to hear from you soon!

So many people post threads and never bother to even come back and look at the responses, or say "Thank You!"

FYI, if a provider does NOT have her rates, location, and availability for you to find without a decoder ring, she can't get mad at you for asking questions. This is supposed to be black and white, not a damn mystery.

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where she is based, and it's placed right up front.

It seems countless providers do not include this. Often the city can be inferred or can be known based on where the link is that I clicked on, but many times the link has been pasted somewhere that contains no geographic clues.

I agree with you about also including a couple of short sentences of introduction. It offers a bit more opportunity to make a good first impression regarding character; as opposed to a laundry list  of data.

I agree. The biggest complaint I heard from guys in the beginning was KISS...keep it simple, stupid.