Semi-casual?  Semi-formal? Sorry first time guys

Personally I like to see a man dressed business casual if he is just coming to see me at my incall.

But if you have any plans to go anywhere with the lady, you need to dress appropriate to whatever that activity is.

it all depends on what you are planning for the evening.

always semi-casual..i am not going to a prom..i am not going to the gym either..as long as you are respectfully dressed most providers dont care about formality..most of your attire is on the floor in no time anyway..sometimes after a hot session i cant even remember what i wore anyway and usually cant remember where i threw it..you need to dress in something semi-casual to get you in the door and out of it..it is what happens in between that is the most important..

...based on where you will see the lady. If you're doing in call only and will be going to an apartment or hotel dress business casual. If it's dinner out dress appropriate for the restaurant & the location of the appointment after dinner.

I just had a session with a lady that was at her private in call. I asked that we be casual. She in blue jeans and T-shirt. I wore blue jeans and T-shirt. We fit right in with those around us. The T-shirts were nice and clean and the jeans were too.

Most of the time I wear casual slacks (black or Khaki) and polo style shirt & loafers. Occasionally a button up dress shirt and nice jeans or casual slacks as mentioned above.

Even if you wear nothing else, the gal will apprciate that.

I've been told by so many gals that the shoes are the first thing they notice.

It makes sense when you consider how much time and effort they put in to selecting their own footwear.

All the rest of the advice is spot on too.

Such good advice..sneakers are for running and work outs not meeting a lady.

Its only an incall session. So business to semi casual? I was thinking a nice black and white plaid button-up with some nice dress shoes and slacks with a belt, but i guess that would be to informal.

Socks that match the shoes.

Skid marks are a real mood killer.

nice shorts, sandals, nice shirt, etc.

button up shirt (white, plaid, whatever), dress shoes, slacks with belt, to me this is semi casual or business casual. yep, your good to go. If she is at an apartment or hotel you'll fit right in.

Oh no worries there I always have a fresh pair and wash-up there out of habit