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Re: An odd first experience. Your thoughts?
Bostonguy57 48 Reviews 906 reads
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I was with a gal last week who initiated a second go-round but I have found that quite often it's entirely up to the customer to do this.  

Think about it.  The first thing you need to remember is that this is work for them.  It may be pleasurable and they may enjoy it to some degree but how often do you have sex twice in an hour with an SO Spouse? I'm not suggesting that a good provider will not oblige you a round two but, seriously, why on earth would they initiate it when they can just lay back, relax and wait to see if you do? Just lean in and start fondling things again, she will get the hint.

So I did it! I finally had my very first hobby experience. The girl was really sweet and thanks to you fine folks I was able to do proper research and find the right situation. So here's my question to you. Once inside the room, we took care of business and got comfortable. I explained to her that it was my first hobby experience and that I was nervous. She made me feel very relaxed and at ease. She performed a very nice BBBJ to CIM which only took me about ten minutes. After, we layed on the bed and had a nice comversation. Now, at this point I was hoping we would talk a few minutes, get worked back up and go for round two. Unfortunately, we kept talking and before I knew it the hour was up. It went really fast and I genuinely had no idea we had just talked the rest of the hour away. My question is this- do providers normally initiate the second round or should I have done so at some point? I guess I kept waiting for her to start something up but she never did. Her info page does say mutiple shots are available and in many of her reviews, a second round was experienced. Going foward, what should I do in that situation?

shudaknownbetter1762 reads

Often a lady will snuggle & if she feels you physically responding will start a second round.  If you are not in contact, you might not respond so she'll be waiting for you.  You do need to start caressing her & initiate some sex play...  last time I started tounge work on her breasts so we were pretty close.  

Since this was your first time...  she might have done more...  or like you she may have gotten lost in conversation.
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Sometimes the lady will ask, "are you ready to go again?".  Other times, you will have to initiate it.  

With your first cup in the first 10 minutes, you should have had plenty of time left (assuming a 1-hr. date) for a 2nd go.

All gals are different.

I've had the same situation come up where I get lost in a great conversation and before you know it, the time is up.  In these circumstances, I don't feel ripped off at all because I was truly enjoying myself.

About half the time I'll initiate something to get a second shot off, and the other half she will.

Some gals will even insist you stay past the hour to get a second (and in one case a third!) round off.

Those, are the keepers!

If it a new client, I will talk and snuggle with some caressing,if I see some arousal in that area then I initiate more play, if no reaction, I just continue on with the cuddling. I never want to make a client feel bad or embarresed because he can't go a second round, so I guess I want him to make the first move.
I'm glad you ask this question, I would like to know what you guys would prefer.

I've had many dates where a second pop was not sought.  Many ladies will try to initiate this, and that's fine.  Or, if you wish to, cut short the conversation, and initiate round two yourself.  Getting hard and passionate again will usually do the trick, unless time is running out.

newbieone1235 reads

just wondering how do you guys go to round 2? i can never ever do round 2, after one shot i get tired and i am pretty fit.

shudaknownbetter1347 reads

Do not feel bad, truth be told, there are lots of guys...  whose recovery time is longer than the basic date time...  I can get him back up but generally not complete a second.  

If you find your pattern is one shot, learn to slow down & enjoy the ride...  finish nearer the hour.  
skb

I was with a gal last week who initiated a second go-round but I have found that quite often it's entirely up to the customer to do this.  

Think about it.  The first thing you need to remember is that this is work for them.  It may be pleasurable and they may enjoy it to some degree but how often do you have sex twice in an hour with an SO Spouse? I'm not suggesting that a good provider will not oblige you a round two but, seriously, why on earth would they initiate it when they can just lay back, relax and wait to see if you do? Just lean in and start fondling things again, she will get the hint.

There are some ladies who do not.  In fact, for some ladies (even if you book an hour appointment), once you are done the appointment is over.

This is not the case with most reputable providers, but it does happen.

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