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Re: Ah, don't think too hard
SweetJaneHR See my TER Reviews 961 reads
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She's been doing this for a long time.  I have a friend who is a private investigator (he knows about my hobby) and he has said that I am just as good as he is at research, probably even better since I get such a limited amount of information to work with.  

Now if only I looked so good in sunglasses.

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rajatsden2300 reads

I am a newbie, and I emailed a well-reviewed independent provider for an incall, mentioning my newbie status and the fact that I dont have any references. She agreed to it, and we have set up a time this weekend. However, she did not ask for any of my personal information for verification, nor did she talk to me over the phone, though we did exchange our phone numbers. All we did was to exchange a few emails. Is her not asking more questions a red flag? The provider is well-reviewed by over 100 clients, and most have given her very good ratings.

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rentagirl2153 reads

For some the lack of screening would be a major problem, but I would be OK with her if she had 100 good reviews, by reviewers with multiple reviews also. Some ladies just keep to themselves, and get a feel for a client through email and phone conversations.

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maturebridgette1805 reads

might also mean she has other way of checking you. There are ways to check through email addresses..and also a phone numberwithout asking a whole lotta personal information. depends on the female..

as long as she is reviewed you should befine:D

have lotsof fun ...relax and enjoy looking forward to the moment instead of worrying..

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I~Spy1061 reads

she probably already ran your number name and info through various systems. You'd be very surprised.

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I~Spy1039 reads

yrs ago, when i started, we relied on gutt instinct. I didn't know anyone in this business and flew by the seat of my pants more or less. it was a much riskier business then  no refs no contacts just wingin it and hoping my instincts were right.
I have to say I would never do that now but I was lucky and in the end even with all the refs in the world my gutt instinct to this day has the last word on deciding to see a client or not.
Some women still rely mainly on this and with her review history i wouldn't worry about her. She's the one taking the risks here seeing a newbie.

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rajatsden873 reads

What kind of systems can she search me on? I did not get it. I don't think she is supposed to have any of my private information, except that is available through google.

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SweetJaneHR962 reads

She's been doing this for a long time.  I have a friend who is a private investigator (he knows about my hobby) and he has said that I am just as good as he is at research, probably even better since I get such a limited amount of information to work with.  

Now if only I looked so good in sunglasses.

Related Link: Anyone want to know what's under my trenchcoat?

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CaptainHammer981 reads

I just saw a provider with extremely high praise and numerous reviews that didn't ask me for any personal information.

I would say as long as she has multiple reviews, with high praise, you should be good to go.

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stanvangun1526 reads

wow..can you guys share what city? And who that might be? this is exactly what I need!

especialy the newbie friendly/highly rated/no refs part!! :-)

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xtheory3127 reads

My very first didn't ask for any info either, but I was P411 and Datecheck verified so perhaps that helped.  I don't know.  She was well reviewed and recommended to me by a fairly experienced hobbiest who I'd just met.  Needless to say it was a great first experience that I'll never forget.  I echo the responses of everyone above.  If she's well reviewed you'll be just fine.  Have fun, relax, and let the good times roll!

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rockthered1057 reads

I know a lady in our city who doesn't screen but she has tons of reviews. But she doesn't really uses ads so you would only see her if you were on TER or date check or something similar.

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