Married or not should not be a factor. Not using a condom is a BIG NO NO! That in itself is grounds for canceling the appointment. Oh, he might say, "OK, I'll use one" but then in the heat of the moment he will probably try to convince you otherwise.
Break it off and don't look back. Other hobbyists will not consider you flaky if your reviews (at least the vast majority of them) state otherwise. For most of us, it is all about performance.
I don't smoke so I'll take his place for the DATY--OK? LOL
Do you ask for all of this info up front? Honestly, I don't see how being married would be an issue. You are cutting out a ton of potential business if you don't wan to see married guys. The fact is many providers prefer it. The condom is of course a huge deal breaker and no one is going to consider you a flake for refusing to go bareback with some loser. The smoking thing is something you really would need to make clear up front as most guys wouldn't think to mention it during screening.
Not wanting to use a condom -- that, among everything else, seems to a completely non-negotiable rule.
If you don't want to see a smoker, do you put that anywhere on your website? I'm not a smoker, but that question has never come up before, either on my end or on the provider's end.
Of course, smoking while you are together should not be allowed, and if he's polite, he won't smoke for a while before he sees you so that he doesn't reek of smoke.
If you haven't seen him yet, just politely tell him that you will not be able to see him, and let it go at that.
We're talking about a business arrangement, not breaking off an engagement. If you don't want to see him, don't see him. Plain and simple. this business is the ultimate "service may be refused to anyone at the owner's sole discretion".
Of course, I con't understand why his marital status should matter either, but in any case you should not see any clients that you don't feel compfotable with...Period
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