Re: Oooh! not gonna get very many...

"YES" votes on a public board!!!

Bro, it's pretty obvious you HAVE herpes by your post ! --->

You don't seriously think girls are waving their hands saying "sure pocketrockets let me suck your chancre  sore ridden cock"???  

I can only guess that you're kidding, or  hopelessly delusional ???

-- Modified on 11/19/2008 4:31:16 PM

I'll be your huckleberry. That burning and itching is such a turn-on. You can check out my ad on CL and my reviews on BD. Come to momma...

BTW that is a powerful picture.. Good luck.

Re: As a Provider don't you think we have enough trouble?

Keeping up with LE, and you think with all the other risks we have to take for our safety, we would see a man with Herpes?  Was this a trick question or have you lost your mind? "AT LEAST KNOWING A SITUATION" were your words, are you insinuating that Hobbyists lie about STD's when they come see us?  and you know whats amazing about this post?? 1 or 2 Hobbyist jumped on his shit, I, a Provider posts about Hobbyists having the consideration to call us to cancel, and i get literally jumped on by some for saying that, God Forbid a Provider voices her opinion, rather have her sub-serviant, But this clown who happens to be a Hobbyist can post something like this and he gets NO flack at all..Double Standard is amazing. Very disappointed at the Hobbyists here, letting this clown insinuate that you guys lie to us about your health safety.
Jay

Regardless of the current state of Herpes.....

You're not going to have any providers willing to take the risk, including myself.

Sadly, there ARE careless and dishonest individuals...who doesn't take others health and livelyhood into consideration by being upfront and honest. On the other hand, some may be infected and the signs haven't appeared yet. That is why, we as providers, have to be pro-active in protecting ourselves against disease.

I have to commend you for being honest, however your chances of partaking in the hobby is slim to none.

In one of it's various forms. If you got chicken pox as a child that is also part of the herpes family of virus's. If one has herpes simplex 1 or oral herpes, over 80% of the popluation are already carriers for the disease.

It looks like your talking about herpes simplex 2 (HSV-2)or genital herpes, which you stated over 20% of the population are carriers of.  

If you are taking valtrex or acyclovir to control outbreaks you can still pass on the virus to others through skin to skin contact. So if you have herpes simlex 2 and partaking in this hobby that would pose a major risk to others to infection.

please don't even think about it. it is so inconsiderate and irresponsible...

Even though this is my first post here  I just had to chime in on this.
I am seriously cosidering seeking a provider and am new to all of this. The idea of getting something like that photo is pretty gross.
I would hope that someone with a cold or flu would not want to "share", yet alone anything like that. Wish there was a magic test like DateCheck...we could call it STDCheck and have your doctor certify the person "clean".
No wonder alot of these girls are so pickey.

You are correct, knowing the situation and communicating about it is a much safer way to play than the way most assume there is nothing simply because nothing is said.  I would see you.  There are MANY ways to play that will mitigate if not neutralize the risk.

I'm sorry you got so harshly flamed here.

You are correct that HJ and CBJ are the most likely offerings by ladies to someone with such a condition.  I'd recommend looking into the FBSM realm where you are likely to get less judgement, where there is the less risk behavior to begin with, and please disclose to the lady so she can take any appropriate "extra" precautions that she feels necessary.

xoxo,
Sola

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I am very new here so I won't be offensive in any way. I hope. For him to come forward is commendable. I have been reading post after post to find that providers say that they practice safe sex and so fourth. However for you to say you wouldn't take this call is like a double standard. Don't you guys wrap up to prevent the spread of std's but when someone has one and tells you you get offended and upset? Thats not only rediculous but cruel. Why all the fuss over wrappers then? This situation is exactly what they are for. No I'm not anxious to meet a guy with herpes or any other std but if he told me in advance that would allow for proper precautions. I know some of the providers and hobbyists have a venerial disease or a history of one however it is bad for business if they say so. This shows the lack of integrity that some may have while runnig their business but we won't talk about that here now will we....