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Strange Question About what my $$ can buy
endo8 3577 reads
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I'd be okay with DFK, but probably not much else.  I'm not married, but whatever.

Would a provider be frustrated if I just wanted to hang out for an hour and make out naked?  It seems like it's some easy cash, but I read some reviews and it seems like they're in a hurry to get you going.

I don't know, can't decide which way to go with this.  But figured I might as well ask.

Should I e-mail first to make sure they are cool with some weird shit like that?  I don't want to seem like some crazed potential stalker that just likes to "cuddle."

Sarah_Nicole2298 reads

Dear Endo8,
   
Let me begin by assuring you that your needs are NOT weird and requesting DFK without much else is NOT weird!  

Many providers offer a variety of session types.  Some of us even offer 'Kiss and Cuddle' sessions that have a lower donation than other sessions.  I get requests for this type of session every week and sometimes nearly every day.  

Men see providers for many different reasons.  Those reasons may change as time goes on and your needs may change as well.

Perhaps you should ask on your local regional board if any ladies offer a 'Kiss and Cuddle Only' session.


Happy Hobbying,
Sarah Nicole

Related Link: Smooch & Snuggle sessions

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lungman1651 reads

Sarah,,,Wow,what wide variety of activities you offer...Great idea!,,,Only problem is,your the only one i've read about that offers different fees for different activities!
If anyone out there in the Buckeye state offers this,,,i would sure like to know!(Kiss and Cuddle+Nudity,,,that is.)
ps,,,at a lower rate than FS.

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GaGambler1779 reads

"Time and companionship only" I like her much more honest position. It's not like anyone, including LE ever believed that tired old mantra anyways.

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lungman1628 reads

What?

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GaGambler1244 reads

Most providers advertise that they are being paid, not for sex, but for their time and companionship. Sarah's post kind of blows that myth. Get my point now?

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SolaLove1310 reads

I've worked in many industries that had differential rates for labor/time based on the type of work performed (labor rates for skilled vs. unskilled tasks), the time of day that the work is don on (overtime, holidays, etc.) and other variables.  Additionally, my labor rates are scaled to take into account things like the 75-gallons of water to fill my soaking tub, the prep and cleaning of three rooms for an appointment vs. one or two used in a different appointment, etc.

I see no reason why the same business practices used in the "real world" shouldn't apply to a ladies REAL business.

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GaGambler1307 reads

I am just pointing out the ridiculousness of the disclaimer that is prevalent on providers web sites.

I agree that a lady should run her "real business" as a business is run in the "real world". If you'll reread my post, I am actually praising her for her lack of that silly disclaimer, or at least that was my intention.

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SolaLove1305 reads

Both Sarah Nichole and I have that "silly" disclaimer, I believe.

Your post implied that the "I charge for my time" disclaimer is invalidated by charging different rates, I was pointing out that is not the case.  

Now.  If a lady has on her site that Greek is $ (or fill in the blank with a sexual service), well, then I'm fully on board with you.  The disclaimer is not only useless, it's bs.
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Sarah_Nicole1473 reads

Dear Lungman,

Since TER doesn't have a Regional Board for your city/state, you might try going to the Michigan regional board (or even the Other Cities board) and asking if any ladies near your city offer 'Kiss & Cuddle Only' sessions.  

It can't hurt to ask.  Maybe posing the question will inspire some ladies to expand their menus. :)  

I think I was the first lady in my area to offer this Smooch & Snuggle, but now several local ladies advertise a Kiss & Cuddle only option at a lower donation than FS.  One FBST lady hurt her back and during her recovery period, Kiss & Cuddle sessions were all she was able to offer.

By the way, the rate for FBST sessions is usually quite a bit lower than for FS.  Perhaps you could pose your request to a lady who offers FBST only sessions and GFE FS sessions.  She may accommodate your request and charge you the FBST rate.


Best Wishes,
Sarah Nicole

Related Link: Michigan Regional Board

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SolaLove1200 reads

Dear Ms. Sarah Nicole,

I think there has always been a need in this hobby for "simple" smooch & snuggle dates... and you are the very first lady I ever saw who clearly identified this and made it a stated offering.

While I don't offer that specifically, I have recently added a note that my spa service time could be requested for cuddling and kissing vs. the more traditional bodywork.  Yes, at a lower than FS rate.  I thank YOU for the inspiration to make this tender TLC clearly available to those gents who need it!

You rock!
:)
xoxo,
Sola

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Sarah_Nicole1186 reads

My Dear SolaLove,

Knowing the loving healer you are, it is no surprise that you offer cuddling and kissing time at a lower than FS rate.  I am so glad that you do!  

XOXOXO,
Sarah Nicole

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lungman1573 reads

Thanks Sarah!

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Bootzie581462 reads

Sarah:  I had a situation that was massage turn into FS and she didn't charge for the extras.  It does happen.

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wizard15651455 reads

Interesting post!  It was a Woody Allen movie, the name escapes me, where he wanted to talk for an hour and it really fustrtated the prostitute. For me, I think a well educated VIP could easily fufill that request.  For my bithday a couple years ago, I  went with a well reviewed escort on a 4 hour dinner date.  Of course sex was on the menu but to be honest my 1,200 would have been well spent if it wasn't.  We went to a play and dinner and the conversation was great. I just cuddled for a hour with my ATF on ocassion too.

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LadyJayLa1333 reads

whether it be Hot Sex, BBBJ or us just laying naked and kissing..all the above sounds fantastic.
Laying there talking, kissing, getting to learn about each other is really fun, and some of my Gentlemen only do that..it's FINE with me
Jay

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Willieb541122 reads

Call and let's make this my dream come true...651-9480.

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xc222ea1060 reads

Endo – The ladies have responded just as I thought they would. What you're talking about is "not some weird shit." It's well within the bounds of how many use a meeting with a provider. There are many older gentlemen, and some younger, who for medical reasons cannot get or sustain an erection and still enjoy time with providers. But that's only one reason. There are plenty of others.

But do note – you probably don't want to set up a 60 minute meeting with a youngster from the local agency for this sort of experience. There are many providers who have a mechanical approach to sex. You might end up being embarrassed. But the professional independent providers will be more than happy to take you in hand and you will have a great time.

If it were me, I'd probably e-mail this in advance in a discrete way, but not in my first e-mail. I would wait until I was screened and the date was set. Then I'd mention something in passing in a way that would seem natural and not off putting.

The main point is that there is nothing to be defensive or awkward about. This sort of thing occurs more often than you might think.

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endo81154 reads

Well, I have to say I'm pleasantly surprised by the responses.  I figured I would get a few sarcastic remarks here and there, but thus far everyone has been very helpful.

Thank you to everyone that responded!

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