I'm a complete newbie and set up an appt for a couple weeks from now. I set it up a couple weeks back and since the initial contact we've been emailing a lot, sometimes 5 or 6 times a day. Very innocent day to day happenings and such. This seems like a very good thing as far as safety is concerned for me. It just sort of happened. She says it isn't normal for her to do and there is no pressure on either end. Its mostly lighthearted joking. Is there any reason I should be concerned? I don't think so, but I just make sure.

it can be a lot of fun and a good way to get to know each other so that there is no awkwardness when you meet.

I end up doing this a lot with gals whom I meet for the first time.

No, be glad she is maintaining interest in your date.  It never hurts to have a great raport with your future ladies.

I dont even E-mail lifelong friends 5 to 6 times a month.  

That aside, if you are asking if you should be concerned for LE reasons, prob. not. I don't think LE would waste their time getting involved in that much E-mail conversation with you to make a bust.

Be very careful that you are not getting too involved or trying too hard to get close with this particular provider. With that said, I am not sure for a newbie, E-mailing 5 or 6 times a day is particularly healthy or wise. You dont have the experience to separate your fantasy world (wow, she is totally crazy about me!) and the reality of the situation (I'm a mere client and nothing else)

I hear ya, thanks. I'm not too worried about blurring the fantasy. It's something I keep aware of.  I do a lot of emailing to people back and forth all day long. Just not to providers, so emailing's sort of second nature, emailing a provider is not.

Sounds legit. Keep the appointment. Go in with your senses set to aware.

Sage advice. His emailing 5-6 times per day is a red flag that he had better heed. The provider sound nice and sweet and patient, but she is running a business.

Yeah its probally cool. Wow thats alot a day. I like keeping up with the Joneses but I just cant email EVERY DAY with the same person. I like to keep things friendly and simple when it comes to emailing, but I cant be in constant contact every day for advanced appts, because if I let a day or two go the guy might get upset or annoyed. Trust me I have dealt with this before! LOL