Hey everybody. I am going to be booking my first ever appointment with an escort and am looking for some advise on how long I should book. My initial thought was 2 hours, as this will be my first time and I want to ensure I do not underbook and regret it. However, I also don't want to overbook and end up spending more than I need to.

I went ahead and splashed the money to get VIP and make sure the provider I choose is open to MSOG (though booking 2 hours without MSOG seems a bit ridiculous to me either way). All in all, definitely worth it considering the small cost compared to what I will be paying in the end.

Any additional advice for a first-timer would be appreciated as well.

Thanks!

Many ladies offer 90 minute rates, and that might be a good compromise for you. After your first session, you should know better, as to how much time you want in future appointments. For some guys 1 hour is plenty, and some guys prefer spending longer times with the ladies. For me personally I like 2 hour sessions, but I also base my time on their rates. If ladies discount their second hour, (for example 1hr rate = 300, and 2 hr rate = 500), I will almost always book two hours  But if the hourly rate is the same for a second hour, then I might just go with the 1 hour appointment.

Since you have VIP now, you should read the details in her reviews. You might get a hint by readingt the reivews, as to the how her sessions are, and that might give you an idea of how much time to book.

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...an hour on the first visit with a provider. I do that for the reason you stated. I don't want to be there too long if things don't go well. If things are good then I will schedule a longer time on subsequent visits. Perfectstorm's suggestion of 90 minutes is a good compromise.

I'd stick to an hour.

Nobody fucks non-stop for TWO hours straight, and if you do the provider may never wish to entertain your call again. If you don't necessarily "click" there may be awkward silence somewhere around the 70 minute mark, or even earlier.

 If money is of no consequence then book the session as if it's your last day alive.

...consideration.  It's your first ever venture into the world of play-for-pay (P4P) so you don't even know if this world is for you.  You should probably book one hour for the first time and then more time on subsequent visits if it works out so you can pursue MSOG.

Also, if it's any hobbyists first visit to a provider they haven't seen before, two hours can seem like an eternity if there's no compatibility.  The reviews can only tell you so much.

I have only had a handful of appointments, but all of them have been 2 hours.  All but one have gone over time.  Being new, I wanted to keep my anxiety level down, and having lots of time is one way I achieve this.  For me at least, starting with an hour would make for a rushed, and less enjoyable appointment.

Mine is a different approach from what other guys have suggested (all good suggestions by the way). Ask the provider if she can accommodate 90 minutes with an option for 2 hours. What you achieve by this is; you have time to sit with her and become comfortable without thinking that your clock is running out and you have, have, have to get to other things, you also have to opportunity (as does she) to figure out if 90 will be fine or if you want to run it out to 120. If you've chosen a provider who isn't scheduling back to back appointments, there should be no issue and it's a decision you can both arrive at. This makes it comfortable for you and her.
From my own experience with providers, the first meet is usually when you spend the most time talking and getting to know one another enough to determine the "click" factor. With an hour appointment, you run the risk of feeling like you have to end the talk and get to other activities and that always is an awkward moment for a new guy. With a 90 minute appointment (and the possibility to extend), you allow yourself to become comfortable with her and she with you. I think most providers would be at least willing to consider that as an option.

JC

My advice is do the one hour.  When I was a newbie, I would book the 1.5 or 2 hours.  I started to realize that sometimes that was great but in other instances it was a waste (i.e. she did not look like you thought or the conversation was not the best).  Do one hour.  If she proves to be someone you click with, then you can do the 1.5 or 2 hours.

I should have explained something. I only hobby on business travel, which means not too often.  So I don't always have the chance to follow-up a one hour appointment with a two hour one.  At least not in a reasonable length of time.  That is in part why I take these two hour slots.  They have worked well so far.  Plus, I am not exactly hair trigger any more, which means constant "activity" for over an hour in all cases.  In a couple if cases, it was over 90 minutes.  I would have been real disappointed if those were one hour slots.  Everyone is different I guess.

Maybe it is because I am older (64) but I have actually had a better experience by booking longer dates, usually at least 3 hours, even on a first date with a provider. I do a great deal of homework and even though I am a relative newbie who has been hobbying just over 14 months, I have seen 21 different providers. Surprisingly, the ones with which I booked only an hour or 90 minutes were the ones I would rate the least satisfying. The last seven that I saw for the first time were all at least 3 hours and in every case I wished it had been longer. Then again, I am much more concerned with the quality of the session than how many pops. The longer sessions allow me to not worry about whether too much time is spent talking and I do enjoy having a glass of wine or a meal with my dates. But that is just my way and you need to decide what you enjoy and are looking for when scheduling a date. You have received a lot of good advice from all that responded. Good luck with whatever y ou decide.