Hi,

couple of questions that maybe someone can help answer.

1) Should one be worried of STD and any disease when performing cunnilingus?

2) What gifts should one bring and what is the typical tip rate for a decent performance?

Your links to promote or preclude this mans fears are needed.

If gifts are brought it is wisest to keep them small and concealable (like under your coat). One of the biggest give-aways to neighbors of a provider and her profession is a regular stream of gentlemen bearing gifts going to her door, and one of LE’s biggest sources of informants is neighbors.



-- Modified on 2/12/2006 11:13:30 PM

Below are links to two excellent articles on cunnilingus and STDs:

San Franscisco City Clinic:
http://www.dph.sf.ca.us/sfcityclinic/drk/oralsex4.asp

Coalition for Positive Sexuality:
http://www.positive.org/Home/faq/oral.html


In addition, here is a link to the Sexually Transmitted Disease Forum, hosted by Med Help International:
http://www.medhelp.org/forums/STD/wwwboard.html

and a specific thread in the STD Forum on cunnilingus and STD risks:
http://www.medhelp.org/forums/STD/messages/2365.html


The answers to your first question are contained therein.


The Advisor

here's a useful STD chart from the SF clinic

http://www.dph.sf.ca.us/sfcityclinic/stdbasics/stdchart.asp

As a newbie to all of this, I have read the blogs on unprotected oral sex and what I get out of it is its low risk BUT still unsafe.Kind of like Russian Roullet.Has anyone known of somebody getting any std or HIV? How often do you guys get tested? Lots of daty going on out there...just trying to justify the risks...I'm getting tested in a few more weeks,I feel that I may be over reacting but I hate the feeling that maybe this time the bullet is in the chamber, unlikely but not 100% either.Wondering on how you all deal with it...