incall - you go to her, outcall - she comes to you.  As for which is better - that would depend on the situation.  I personally don't host in my hometown.  If I'm offering incall its going to be a hotel in big city.  I like outcalls because I don't have to stay in one place, I get around and meet men all over Northern AL.


as for the privacy and unblocked number - I don't have any experience with that and will let someone else answer.

This business is mainly discrete, not anonymous.  Those who accept numbers from blocked callers often times use trap call - which unblocks your number for them.  I wouldn't see someone anonymous nor would any of the providers I associate with.

Re: How to remain anaonymous

When someone calls me from a blocked number, I don't pick up the phone. I wouldn't see anyone anonymous, either.

such a provider would be to careless for me to consider safe and discreet to visit.

I never answer blocked or anonymous calls and I would never see a man that I know nothing about.
As a provider, I am literally putting my life in your hands when I invite you to my incall or when I come to you. I need enough info to make me feel comfortable that you are not going to kill me and chop me to bits, then stuff me in the trash.

The provider's safety has to come first.  The ladies have a significant risk seeing a larger guy in who knows where.  

Also, they will need your phone number in order to contact you with directions to their incall or your room number if they are going to see you in your hotel.

my hobby cell & my private e-mail.  That is the only way they can tie together my PM here, when we move to e-mail, and then when we contact by phone to get the location & later the room number.  Otherwise she may think she's talking to 3 different people.  
You are trying to convince her to see you...  let's help make that happen, not make her pry the needed info from you.
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