OK folks I'm a Newbie.. I'm getting into this Hobby but I do have some stupid questions but I need to ask them.  I've been pouring over all the reviews for the NYC area and I think I've narrowed down the provider(s) I plan on going with (BDJ). Now are the questions. I've looked at their  per hour rates and they seem reasonable as listed. Are they just a "starter rate" or is it truly "all inclusive".  I'm asking because I'd like too know what amount to bring. I'd rather not show up with the amount listed and find out I won't be able to come to the party so to speak. Has anyone out there have any info on this. Or them (BDJ)?  The reviews are all good to great. I'd just like to know what I'm actually walking into.

The rate listed *should* be correct.  My first time, I showed up and she said her rate was $200 more than her add said.  I paid it, but I think she was asking for more b/c she knew I didn't know better.
A more professional girl won't want the money to be an awkward issue, so she'll expect you to pay what she advertises.

It's a good idea to bring some extra for a tip.  I usually have the normal amount in an envelope, then just leave the tip nearby at the end.  You can read some threads about tipping if you want advice on that.

from the few experiences I have had the donation is exactly that
Make sure she has plenty of reviews.  If your experience is outstanding you could leave a tip.  300 experience leave a 20.
Most providers will make sure you are relaxed.  Follow the instructions on presenting the donation precisely,  You will be fine and good luck.  If you have an SO keep it covered.

This has probabaly been said countless times, but in the case of an upsell (the scenario that you just mentioned where a provider demands more for extra services), it will be very likely that it will be mentioned in the reviews. However, well reviewed providers usually have all inclusive rates for full service except for MAYBE an extra charge for some services (such as greek, s&m, ect)which in that case will also be mentioned in reviews.

If the reviews say there was "upselling," that means the session was more than the listed rate.  If there's no mention of upselling, then the listed rate was all inclusive.

By the way, upselling is bad, and should not be tolerated.

And sorry about the first post above, I hit the wrong button on the keyboard!

They have an excellent rep in NYC, and I would not expect their ladies to upsell.  That being said, you should always bring more than the donation listed in case you want to go overtime, or to tip, which is SOP with many who visit agency ladies.  You might also post this question on the NY board, or perhaps send a PM to some of the ladies reviewers.

You have ZERO to worry about.

If you are going to be in this hobby, you need to know there are certyain expenses over & above the donations.  
You should get a separate e-mail address (which can be free).
You should get a separate hobby phone which is inexpensive.  
After you have read all the Newbie FAQs & several pages on these boards (free) you need to get VIP.  It's worth what it costs.  You'll know to avoid scams, Bait & Switch & upsells...  
Happy hobbying
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Unless you are going to an AMP the rate should be all inclusive, if she starts talking more money I would just leave... things just seem to go downhill from there. I have never used BDJ personally, but with their reputation I would not hesitate to call them if I was visiting your area.