Hello all, I am new to this, been reading over a ton of reviews, and I have a few questions. Any replies anyone could provide is greatly appreciated.
1. Is there any way to guarantee that these are legit reviews, and not just the provider or agency (or both)? I'm sure most of them are legit, just asking as, like I said, I am a newbie here.
2. Some of the great reviews mention "swallows" and "DFK", and it seems that almost every review mentions this. Do all of these providers really do most of that? And would you as a "reviewer" really want to DFK with someone who may have had a number of guys mess in her mouth that night before you? Not slamming, just asking for my own knowledge.
3. There is a girl I have seen a few times, both times were pretty decent, had a good time with her, but she is not on this site. Can I add reviews for a provider not on here, or does she need to get on here first?
I was wondering the same. I just posted a review that got unapproved because it's supposedly too different from other reviewers. That's not my fault, I'm sure people have different tastes and views on what's considered attractive or a good performance or not.
Also, according to the guidelines a provider can only get up to a certain score if she doesn't do dfk, bbbj, etc... so I think it's really suspect. I'd rate a provider highly if she cares about her health and isn't doing stuff raw, etc... and I'd be hesitant to go for one that states bbbj, cim, but then offers you dfk. That doesn't sound very good but she'll get a higher score than one that stays safe but might still give an outstanding performance.
I've been struggling to get reviews accepted and I'm starting to question the validity myself. If you review honestly, it should be put up. It's up to the people looking at the reviews to determine if it smells like bs or not, that's part of the hunt.
But for your last question, you can put up a review for a provider not on the site already. My very first one that was accepted was like that. From what I can see, that might even be easier to get it accepted since your word is taken and there aren't any other reviews that might be "too different" from yours.
1. There is no absolute guarantee, but TER management does not rubber stamp reviews as evidenced by how many new reviewers are always complaining about their first time reviews not getting posted. TER also checks the web addresses and computer IDs used to write reviews in order to catch people using their own computers to write phony reviews, etc. My own experience having met scores of gals from this site over the last five years is that the reviews are pretty accurate.
2. I wouldn't say that most gals will swallow semen. It seems to me that less than half will even take semen in their mouths. In any case, you can be fairly sure that she will gargle, brush and rinse pretty thoroughly between dates, along with changing bedding and showering, at least the quality gals will anyways. If you find the thought of kissing a gal who offers CIM repulsive, I'm sure you can find a lot of gals who don't offer this.
3. As long as a gal has a website or ad site with photos, she is reviewable unless she has been delisted previously for some reason. In fact, a gal can't get on here (in terms of a profile anyways) until someone does review her.
Welcome to the hobby world by the way.
You ask a lot of very good questions.
You think the girl you're dating hasn't had a mess of guys(or girls) in her mouth as well? I have a girlfriend who is 2)NOT an escort who has slept with half as many men as me....and I hate to say but many times she did it without protection.( I love her to death and she doesn't know what I do) I mean escorts tend to care more for their sexual health than typical girls do. This is our job and we keep our workspace and product clean! So yes, I shower after every date and wash and washrags,sheets or pillows used.(we never get under the sheets, just the top cover gets washed) I also brush my teeth.
If DFK is not your thing then thats fine. But many men want the GFE with a gal and not just the "wham-bam-thankyou-m'am" from an escort. The chances of getting anything from DFK is highly unlikely. I do not swallow or do CIM as that is more risky for STDs and plus I dislike it.
1)As for legit reviews this is a toss-up. I had my first review approved recently on here from a client I saw awhile ago. He was new to the hobby and I was the first gal he'd seen. When he tried to post a review ter.com told him he needed to accumulate more reviews before it would be posted. This was to ensure no one makes a screen name and puts up a glowing review of themselves. ter.com is more regulated than other sites with reviews,which I like. After he submitted 2 more reviews all his reviews finally got posted(including the one on me). Yes agencies or "fake" reviews can slip by by ter tries to prevent this. I'm not a pro on how reviews work on here since I am at the receiving end.
You can have really unsafe sex with someone who does not take care of themselves (as in wash up carefully before and between visits), even if all you do is missionary with a cover on. Or you can have BBBJ, DFK, CIM (dangerous for the provider, but pretty minimal danger for the guy, IMO), DATY and DATO that are safe with a provider who takes care of herself and you.
There is one provider I know, and I am a regular of hers, who is the most fastidious person I know. Disinfectant wipes, Listerine gargle when we are done, always shower carefully afterward, etc. It seems a little excessive when I think about it, except she does it naturally, calmly and she is so damned sexy and good. And it is all part of her taking care of me. Just being with her has been an education, showing me how I have unwittingly engaged in unsafe sex, and making me look at other providers, and amateurs, differently.
If you are dealing with an unprofessional provider, it introduces all sorts of risks, but the ones who have got their shit together are way ahead of you in terms of minimizing risk. Their risk is much greater than yours, and they manage that, just as surely as they make themselves all pretty before you arrive.
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