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Question regarding multi-hour sessions
Sorry if this is a dumb question but I've been thinking about doing a multi-hour session (3+ hours) with a provider. After how many hours do you guys think that dinner would be required? Have people done dinner dates without actually having dinner? What is the reason behind for an additional charge if we stay in for dinner?
Thanks, and again sorry for the stupid newbie questions.
truthfully depends on the provider..most its 4 hrs with dinner..you could order roomservice during the 3 or 4 hors as well. just really depends on the girl. my best advice is simple just ask the provider you are interested in..hope that helps
van
No this isn't a sermon.lol
You'll need to be careful with this one. Most providers consider a dinner date to be of a 4 to 6 hour variety. Time OUTSIDE of the incall/outcall location is a must. If you choose to dine in regular rates may apply. Tread lightly and do the required research to establish the quidelines for this type of adventure.
but to tell the truth, I enjoy having a dinner break.
Anything like this is negotiable, and there no LE risk in talking about this aspect.
If you want to do a long session and don't care for the dinner, just say so and see what she says.
At least be sure to have some beverages on hand, at the very least.
Recommend you have seen the provider before -- last thing you want to do is be stuck with someone you have nothing in common with.
I just had my first 8 hour date. Fantastic. Started with playtime...then wonderful dinner, movie, then back for more playtime. But the great part is that I really got to know the girl. As she became more comfortable, she shared more and more of herself that she never would, or could, in a 1 or 2 hour date. Keep in mind, this is with my ATF...and I'd seen her many times before. But there has to be chemistry to enjoy spending time with her. You have to look at this as an actual DATE!!
So don't do a long session the first time with a new girl...but if you each seem to have enjoyed each other, your investment in her -- not her body, but her -- will be greatly rewarded.
For someone you've never seen anything over 3 hrs can get very, very long. Dinner, play time, and if the 3 hrs went too quickly talk about something longer the next time.
If we're doing a dinner date, then we're going to be out in public for about 1 and a half to 2 hours, then behind closed doors for about 2 hours.
If we're going to be behind closed doors for the entire 4 hours, then that's not a dinner date and regular rates would apply. Now unfortunately, some guys will try to be slick and schedule a dinner date, and then announce at the last minute, "I thought we'd order in." That sends up red flags to me and makes me think he's trying to pull a fast one. Some guys have a lot of stamina and there's nothing wrong with that, but don't try to be sneaky about it. My dinner date is extremely discounted if compared to just 4 hours at my regular rate.
I think being familiar with the lady is a good idea for extended meetings and finding out the eating habits of the lady your going to see. Now what I mean by that is, some people eat 3 meals per day and some of us are on the 6 small meals per day plan which requires eating more frequently. I've recently been put on the 6 small meals per day plan and its a big adjustment. That's needing a snack almost every 2 hours and lots and lots of water!
These are questions you need to ask of the woman that you are booking with. I do dinner dates with two of my favs-one likes to eat before, the other likes to eat after.
As far as why you are paying for the extra time...well, you pay them for their time and companionship. Some gals will do dinner off the clock after you get to know them but when you are booking for the first time you are going to pay for every moment you spend with the lady.
As others have said it'd go better if you've seen her at least once before.
You know, I have had clients having dinner ready when I got there for the outcall, or have had "take out" on the incall. I see no difference, it is your time any way you decide to spend it. It definately depends on the provider you are dealing with. Truthfully, if we are having dinner in, then what's the difference? A true dinner date to me, in the hobby, is the act of being out in public at a restaurant. And dinner "out" usually requires an additional charge as the "dinner date". I hope that helps and wasn't too confusing lol
xoxo
Her reviews will let you know you will enjoy her company BCD. If you think about it too much, you're just not going to be happy. That's why it's important to visualize how you want the meeting to go.
Let's just say your worst case scenario is that you go to dinner first, and you guys are laughing and talking, and two hours slip from your three hour meeting because you decided to share a dessert. And just for example's sake, you know with your libido that with a minimum 1.5 hours BCD you would be right as rain. And the more you think about having JUST under an hour to devour HER, you're thinking negatively about the whole situation. You're thinking, 'is this some type of avoidance strategy?' This is why you asked, right? Thought so...
Depending on the lady you choose, this is something that you will not have to worry about cause she will either keep up with the time, or she will make sure that you're both happy without regard for the time (without disregard for hers, of course) and won't just jump up leaving you wanting more after approximately 35 minutes with you BCD.
In my experience, getting the lovin' out of the way first helps, but then you've gotta get out of bed to make the reservation, which is hard sometimes, especially if you're enjoying yourself. But then you can take your time at dinner, and she can ride the elevator with you up to your room, and part ways from there.
If you'd like a more leisurely time, I would suggest a longer appointment.
A lot of ladies figure if you're going to bang them out for 3+ hours, and they don't get to eat, not even a run through the Mickey D's drive-thru, you're going to pay for it...
That's work, my friend. I've had a couple runs with with sex addicts were I had to take thirty minute breaks every two hours, and I was doubled over in pain by the end. I think I just came more times than humanly allowed. Usually people who know they're a pain in the ass know to tip a lady for being accommodating, but some guys don't so some ladies have added that little tidbit for them.
So say thank you to the ungrateful mansluts...
(Thanks ungrateful mansluuuuts!)
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