Ladies, what goes through your mind when a good looking single guy shows up for an appointment. Do you automatically think something must be wrong with the guy or do you just assume he must be a loser for having to pay for sex/companionship with a provider.

I consider myself to be average looking guy, but get told a lot of providers, I must have women crawling all over me.....this doesn't  really happen in my world. When asked, I tell them, my main reason for hobbying, is having sex without the drama of a relationship. Most can believe it.

What goes through my mind is this is going to be a great time for the both of us. When the ladies say women must be crawling all over you, I would think that is a compliment. As for why you hobby I believe it and understand it.

If I ever start to think that way, then I need to get out of the business! My business is about providing companionship to gentlemen despite their reason for wanting said companionship. If a single good looking gentleman were to show up at my door, then I would think, wow he is a nice looking gentleman! Simply put. I tend to not go into deep thought about why anyone chooses to book an appointment with me besides the fact they would like to spend a pleasurable time together (talking or not). Shouldn't that explanation suffice? I hope so, given I provide quite an erotic and pleasurable time in addition to conversation and..... The focus should be on that! I would rather not let my mind venture off into thoughts of whether the gentleman's past marriage was horrible, or if he is a “loser”, etc. etc. That would just kill the moment! (of course unless he wants to spend his appointment talking about such things, then my ears are all open). Besides, no strings attached can be a wonderful thing and I believe it is appreciated by many. That is why we are here. Hobby on!!! Xoxo, Giamarie
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"Sucking up".  You are spending money on these women. They are inflating your ego in the hopes that it will help their cause towards current and future business.

Honestly, they really don't care about what you look like either as long as you are clean, courteous, on time, respectful and have managed to put the right amount of cash in the envelope.

Well, being a New Yorker I am very well aware that most people worth meeting lead very busy lifestyle which does not offer them too many opportunities for conventional dating.  So i do not think that there is something wrong with him.

XoXo

Lina

SCOOORE

I am gonna tap that sweet thang.


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I assume a gentlemen is looking for NSA sex not that he is a loser or can't get it anywhere else!

Most men don't want the drama of an affair

Well, I'm not a lady but I think you shouldn't worry about this. At all. The idea that one is a loser because of paying for sex is just so wrong in so many ways, in my opinion. Some of the hottest male movie stars pay for sex, as do powerful business people, etc. These guys could easily get plenty of sex without charge but they find it more efficient to just pay for it. Relationships and sex are (can be) two completely different things. Most people seem to have them all mixed together.

I think Charlie Sheen said it best when asked why he paid for sex. He said "I don't pay them for sex, I pay them to go away afterwards". No offense intended to you providers, I enjoy conversing with you almost as much as the sex.

Maybe I'm a skeptic but I'd take with a grain of salt what providers tell you about your looks. That's part of what they do, make you feel like you're incredible.

Do you feel like a loser when you have to pay an M.D. for diagnosing a medical problem? These woman are professionals and are providing a service, just like the M.D.

Enjoy,

Astucious