Why is it that some Providers (very adamantly)--say do not text/or email. Call.

Obviously, I don't do business conversations via email. However, I'm in sales. "Courtesy" to me (ESPECIALLY on a "cold call")-very short brief
Hey, are you avail. Tonight? If so, how late are you working. (net some total).

Reason I say it's "courteous"--is (my real world job in sales)--I first send an email (short blurb about our offering/asking best time to contact--follow up accordingly).

To me, were I a provider. That way is "Less obtrusive"---If she's watching T.V. cares more about that than talking, etc. Just ignore the text/email--or reply.....

I don't want to waste her time/mine--say she puts "Nights"--but "nights" to her end say 11 pm--it's 12:01 am my time. I feel "rude" calling---thus an email. Yes, yes I know they have phones off in a session/off duty. But still....

Any thoughts? Ideas? Again (like in real world)--personally feel as a first contact it makes sense.

I have a *100% LEGIT*--Massage Therapist does home visits. Won't go, until she talks to the person to get a vibe --I 1000000% agree with that---but the "First Contact"---don't get..

Advice?

Providers who say calls only are usually in a rush, book on a short notice, and don't have time for emails/texting back and forth. These are usually the bp providers who are mid to high volume.

For low-volume ladies, it's more proper to email your references, include a little bit about yourself, and book in advance.

Do as they ask or try someone else.  

The reasons why they prefer phone contact don't really matter. The other side of the coin is that some girls want NO phone contact at all. They all have their reasons be it security, avoiding the wrong person seeing an email or text or avoiding time wasters who blow up their phone with text messages or their computer with emails.

who say, "No calls, email only," and many don't even list their phone number for the same reason. Every provider has their own preferences on how to do things. Businesses is probably correct in his analysis. It depends "where" you are looking for your providers.

If you have to pick up the phone to speak with her, chances are good that you won't waste your precious time with some girl you are sending a copy/paste email form letter to, which is a waste of her to respond to.

Also, many emails are really rude and brief, such as:  "Do u do u anal?"

Plus, email and text...well, you never know who is on the other side.

I prefer to make initial contact through email as well.
Business had a point in that it seems the higher volume providers do not have the time or patience for emails. Those aren't the type of providers I would normally seek out.

much more convenient for me to send an email a few days, or a week or more, in advance of when I would want to meet with a lady.  My opportunities to play are limited so I need to be sure not to waste the availability that I have.

Why would a provider want to be bothered by the phone ringing or beeping re. a text msg.?

Guys who demand phone calls are short notice, same day appt. types that I can't accommodate in any case. Your refs should be included in your email so I can verify you, and then I will provide a number when the date is actually set. Texts I will not deal with in any case...they are not the way I do business. An email serves the very same purpose.