Somewhat new to this and had a question I hope could be answered soon, I'm set to meet with a provider, i know screening is not uncommon and the methods can vary but I cant stop thinking about this. Provider asked for 2 photos, face/graphic photo and she sends one in return which is full frontal. Is the exchange of nudes something I should worry about?
Yes, I think you would have something to worry about. I was asked to provide a graphic picture once. I laughed a bit, and moved on. I know you are new, but try to find another way. Ask yourself, how do you know she will send something in return? How would you feel if you send her a pic and she doesn’t respond?
Well I have no problem with sending the pictures, allready did that, and she sent hers. She is a well reviewed provider and she is willing to do outcall too so that makes me think I have nothing to worry about in terms of LE. Was just a little spooked because she only has reviews for 2 months, but the reviewers all have a long history of reviews and such.
One way to avoid a TOTALLY FAKE pic (stolen off the interwebs) is to ask her to take a pic holding up a sign with a message you specify. The phone number in the ad is too "generic" and she might have some photoshopped versions of that already. Come up with something original. "Alas, poor Yorick! I knew him, Horatio. OCT 20." . It might not be a picture of HER, but it has to be someone within selfie-distance who is willing to hold the sign and take a pic. . It worked for Nigerian 419 Scams: http://www.ebolamonkeyman.com/
I was concerned about how the exchange of nudes would be interpreted if she turned out to be LE. I'm impressed by the community and amount of responses I got though. It was way more than expected all ready and has been helpful.
Aren’t bad. There’s one bad review is by a monger who scores low or is hard to please. The rate is fine for a first timer. And as far as looks, that’s always in the eye of the beholder
Now as far as the screening process, that would NEVER fly with me.
Not the least of which is that I find her to be rather homely IMHO, but that aside, between her bizarre screening methods, her rather low rent ghetto ads, AND the fact she's been delisted since this thread was started, I would stay FAR FAR away from this one, but that's just me.
Lastly, as far as exchanging nude pics, it doesn't necessarily mean the odds of her being LE go up, but the chances of you being arrested AND convicted if she does turn out to be LE go up to virtually 100% no matter what you say or do when you get there.
I don't know why it showed that she had been delisted, I didn't type the TER ID in manually, I copied and pasted it, which means I couldn't have screwed it up. (Otherwise, I will admit I am MORE than capable of fucking it up) Perhaps her profile was down for some reason when I checked it, it is most certainly back up now.
I do stand by my statement about personally not wanting to see her however, for every reason BUT, my false assumption that she had been delisted of course.
Had unfortunate experience of trying to connect with a super hot provider, young (20) shows her pretty face completely on her ads (no fading/blurring) and from the sounds of it performance was out of this world! Trouble is, her screening process requires a drivers license, business E-mail, Linkedin account to verify my identity. No Thanks, I hope that isn't growing into a norm
You have to be nuts to send any kind of picture of yourself to someone you don't know. You don't know if it's a scam, and it can be used to blackmail you or wind up on the internet.
Before I meet someone for the first time I do request a face picture. I do not find that request odd. I do it more to make sure it is not someone that I know. (I had a previous boss answer one of my ads. He sent picture, I said out loud OMG! Then I politely sent him an email that I would have to decline meeting with him as I knew him, but would not tell anyone he contacted me. Best of luck to him!! ) If they do not feel comfortable sending me a picture then I request we meet in public first for a drink or something. The graphic picture? I get those ALL the time from gents, no request needed!! LOL
Isn't screening one of the reasons why? That is why I request real life info, safety and this being my primary concern... and fortunately it has saved me a headache a couple of times.
Yup, I have a ex coworker request a date and when I did the screening I realize I knew him... So I declined. What he do with his life and private time isn't my business but I don't want to be part of that secret. (I refer to other ladies) Ha-Ha-Ha. My ex-husband's co-worker book a date as well, I refer him to another lady in the area (I know he is fine, AND hot) but I would definitely would not see him.
I think it's normal now with Id, photos match your ID, LinkedIn, business email, either a few of them are required or all of them. But If you are uncomfortable i guess you can always find girls who doesn't screen, or screen very lightly, just your options are limited and will probably see one of the more desperate (for money) girls lol
Well, I've seen dozens of providers I found via TER, and I've had 2 make such a request, not sure I agree this is becoming a "norm".
Hey, I'm all about provider safety, I get it. I'd like to think there's a reasonable compromise out there. Submitting my ID to a provider would be incredibly stupid, I'm hoping I don't have to explain the reasons why.
Within the last year I've seen & reviewed 4 girls on the TER Boston top 50 without any of your said requirements, just by whitelisted TER ID and providers vouching for me
Always makes me wonder when I see posts like these. "I think it's normal now with Id, photos match your ID, LinkedIn, business email, either a few of them are required or all of them. But If you are uncomfortable i guess you can always find girls who doesn't screen, or screen very lightly, just your options are limited and will probably see one of the more desperate (for money) girls lol"
So, if others do not do as you do then they are desperate for money!! So basically 90-95% of providers out there, huh? Glad to know that you're not desperate for money.
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