I'm very new to this hobby and had a question about references.  At first I was rejected for appointments because I had no references but was eventually able to see a provider.  Next time I see a provider and they ask for a reference, I just refer to the one provider I've seen? Do I need to ask the provider to provide me a reference? Does it matter if I haven't written a review for the provider I've seen?  Thanks

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is willing, some won't do it.

You don't need to write a review.

tc

Many providers will not provide a reference if more than 3 to 6 months have elapsed since the time you saw her.

Asking is just good manners, besides.

Always ask each provider you see if they would be willing to provide a reference, so that they know someone might be inquiring about you. NOT all providers will give out a reference, because they dont want you seeing other ladies or just dont want to be bothered with it.

It's helpful if you can give as much identifying information as possible to the lady requesting the reference so she can pass it on to the previous provider.
Good luck