why do providers set age limits on seeing clients?  i mean i understand setting it to something around early 20's (like 21, 22) but i've seen a few set it to no one under 30.  even some upscale ones and xxx stars who you can pay by credit card and have a thorough screening process.  guys in their 20's can act just as upscale as older guys especially when paying alot of $.  

do they ever make exceptions?

In my experience, when a provider sets a minimum age limit it's because she's looking for a more mature gentlemen.  Oh, I grant you there are many individuals in their 20s who are mature, and many who are over 30 that are certainly immature, but by and large the older the male the more mature they are in their actions.

Hey, when I was in my 20s I was often told I acted more like I was in my 30s, but I still had one focus - me - to the exclusion of all else.  Now I realize that in life, as in so many other things, it is tantamount to give if you want to receive.  That's just something you learn as you grow, both physically and emotionally.

is it more about seeing clients that have experience with women and maybe they don't want to deal with younger guys who might be inexperienced sexually or maybe nerveous, or is it mostly about maturity, respectfullness, things of that nature?

First get a VIP membership so that you can read reviews and more importantly, sort them by performance.  Like anything else, there are providers who have restrictions on who they see.  But if you do review research, you will easily find those who are willing to give you a chance.  But as Bikebryan pointed out, your focus should be as much on pleasing her as on getting pleasure.  You will find out that by giving pleasure, you get more enjoyment out the session than if you focused only on your needs and did not pay attention to her physical comfort and enjoyment.

My opinion - the latter.  I pretty sure there are many guys out there who know more about "having sex" than me, but it's not just about pounding away.  As I said before, as you grow physically, and more importantly, emotionally, you learn more about giving to get.  It becomes less about "you" and more about the dynamic of both (or all involved).

many areas, many relationship and even relating to total strangers in the grocery store check out line.  The Expert on relationships said it best nearly 2000 years ago, "It is more blessed to give than to receive."

... they set minimum age limits because older guys in general treat them with more respect than younger guys.  I've heard stories of young guys pounding ladies to the point of bruising them.  Young guys tend to think that for their $$$ they have the right to treat the lady as an anything-goes sex slave.  Young guys also tend to give the ladies a hard time, as in "you wouldn't do this for me, so I don't owe you your full fee".  Unfortunately, your younger bretheren have come before you, and poisoned the well so to speak.  Perhaps if you can persuade the lady that you recognize the problems associated with younger guys and show some empathy she might make you an exception.  Happily, there are lots of ladies with no age limitations.

In addition to all the other comments, I have a feeling a lot of it has to do with gratitude as well. Every professional likes the gratification of knowing their clients are thrilled with the service, and that they're recieving something special. It goes to professional pride.

Also, though I bet to a lesser degree, there's a measure of control to it too. (I think this is why many providers report prefering average looking men over superhunks.) A young stud will more than likely interact with the provider as the dominant partner in the power dynamic, and that may be unsettling for many professional women. (I ain't talking D/s, but something more subtle having to do with perseption.)


And older client is more likely to to be grateful for the encounter, to express that gratitude, and less likely to get out of control.