I found this really hot provider on backpage who claims she is really new to the biz. I have P411 and she said she could verify me by logging on through her friend's P411 account. I shot an email to her friends account and she responded. Her friend is a well reviewed provider on this website. Do you think I should go ahead?

Unless you have great faith in your Spidey senses, I would not go for this.

You might want to PM (If you have VIP) Some of the reviewed provider's reviewers and ask them if they would buy a referal from this provider.

If I got two or three nods, that would bring the risk down a notch.

I think I'll just skip her altogether. The risk is not worth the reward in my opinion. Thanks for your insight!