You will need to give her whatever she wants to seal the deal. If you are renting a room, give her the hotel name and location, and then when you are in the room, let her know the room number. The main thing for you is to make sure you are meeting with a well reviewed, reputable provider.

If you are seeing a well reviewed lady, I would give all info up front. I could be wrong, but I would think that the provider would see a 2 call system as too much to deal with.
With a well reviewed outcall provider your LE risk is very, very low.

I have my dates arrive at a location just across the street from my incall. I offer incall in my home.
I don't give my dates my address until they call when they arrive across the street.
I wouldn't want to give them my address and then not show..and have my privacy and safety compromised.
If you are able to find a local spot close to your outcall, have them arrive there and call you. Then direct them to your outcall.

Also..because I don't give them my location until right before our time..I don't have attention drawn to me. There are no strangers sitting in cars, walking around on phones...getting lost, coming early. All of that is a non-issue.
Good Luck to you
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Sexy Carolina
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The two call system is designed to protect the lady from guys showing up unannounced at her in call.  Since you are expecting the lady there is no reason that you can not give her the full address to where she is going. If you don't have the room number yet you can text that to her after you check in, assuming you are doing this at a hotel.

My ATF always texts me from the parking lot when she arrives so I know she is on her way up.  That way I can leave the door unlocked so can walk right in rather than stand in the hallway.

Everyone has their own style of how they do things but I feel it is not in your best interest to do that. There should be different ways so that both of you can work this out.

Good luck,
Octavia

PS:

Also your other responses have given you great examples to learn from!  Hope things work out for ya.

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Ever since I went to the right room at the wrong* hotel, I confirm the address with the gentleman. A street number for a home is even more important. Since outcall to a private residence is inherently riskier than a hotel, it also allows me to confirm that the residence is owned by the same person who is contacting me. It's an extra measure of security.

If you're not comfortable giving your address ahead of time, let her know. She may be okay with that or may prefer to meet at her incall or a hotel instead. Ask.



* Most embarrassing moment? I think so.

I won't go to a location I don't know unless i can look it up on Google street Maps.  I am certain other providers do to as it saves us from going to horrible or undesirable locations.  Part of the screening process for outcall is the location IMO.

thanks a lot guys.
it was very helpful.
I appreciate every suggestion / opinion.

I want to be sure I am going to the correct location AND a desirable location.  

I actually had one gentlemen who wanted me to text him once i was on the corner of X&Y ... the answer was firm no.  I just do not see appoitment going well if it starts that way

Lina