Fellas,
Kinda new to the game but looking to dive in (cautiously).  Any advice to keep from getting my pictures in the paper?  I've read the reviews on this lady (Becca TER ID: 198888) and am interested but am extremely cautious!!!  Anybody know her?

Thks

Discussion boards tab.....TER General boards subcategory.........(second selection down) FAQ's for newbies.
That's where this post will be in a few minutes, and there is plenty of good advice there.

First off....congrats for thinking about jumping into 'this thing of ours'. It can be full of excitement, fun, nervousness, tension, drama, with bouts of really great sex thrown in.
Still interested? lol.

Have you spent time on the Newbie board?
That is an invaluable place to ask questions and gather information.

Are you VIP here yet? That means able to read reviews and use the PM system. If not....do it NOW.
Seriously....we'll wait....do it now.

Got that done? Good.
Now the next thing. Backpage? Don't EVER go there again. EVER. Don't be tempted. Don't peek. Don't go there.
If you want to duplicate the experience of what you'll get off BP....just drive down the highway....throw a couple hundred dollar bills out the window....punch yourself in the nuts a few times...then drive home with less money, blue balls, and happy you didn't get robbed by pimps. Rub one out and save all the time and trouble.

Consider joining verification sites like Date Check and P411.
Choose ONLY well reviewed, established providers. Check their reviews....and the reviews of the guys who post them. This helps you determine who writes credible reviews.
Be prepared to be screened, probably heavily, in the beginning (as it should be).

First step is to read the Newbie board.....and go back at least 10 pages.

Good luck.....and have fun.

Just sayin'
DD

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Just consider this a brief, fleeting hiccup in the space / time continuum.

Just sayin'

Great advice DD.
WOW!! A kinder, gentler DD?? Have I been gone THAT long?? Have I been dropped into some type of parallel universe?? I am so confused!

Just sayin'

DD I hope the space time continuum stau fluxed. This is the DD I met

While DD is giving you GREAT overall advice....totally dissing Backpage (as humerously stated as it was) is somewhat unfair to a number of quality ladies that use this site frequently. Yes, there are fakes, phonies, rip-offs, bait & switch, etc on backpage....as there are on most every other site... There are also quality ladies, such as the girls at discretemeetsoftampabay, and other independent providers that use this site. Just do your homework, and let TER reviews and discussion board help be your guide. Good luck, and Good Hobbying!

Of course there's the occasional "gem" on BP....but it's an absolute dangerous jungle to find one.
Not for the timid or new.

You send an Eagle scout into the woods with only a pocket knife and a compass to fend for themselves....not a Cub scout.

I'm just trying to get the Cubs to learn how to eat a Brownie....before they ever even think of venturing off.

Just sayin'
DD

the provider you want to meet when all you have to do is start with TER reviews.

Honest suggestion.. no matter what you do, check reviews on TER and make sure it is reviewers that have reviewed for quite awhile. BP has some good gals on there (and a lot of TER guys go to that-BP) but if you don't check first, you can get ripped off (more times than not!) There are some excellent gals on BP, but you need to do research. Any site can give you gals that ripoff etc, even on here. RESEARCH.

Don't just assume about the reviews either, contact reviewers!!! They can tell you what is up after the reviews. You never know how sessions after the review turned out. No matter what, if you want to be safe, always go by reviews and google her number.

1.See her 2.pay her 3.enjoy her 4.review her  next

As long as you end up here verifying her. BP is just an escort mall, that's it. I don't trust any of them. Eros once had a good rep back in the day but its day is long over. I hunt there, but verify here. No issues, no problems.

the totally avoiding of BP.  I would tell the OP as I have many times before, look anywhere, BUT, do the research on her, regardless of where she posts ads.  As previously mentioned, there are many quality providers that use BP with much success.  You just have to be careful.

Swim


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I'm new also.  I did the VIP thing here at TER.  I also attempted to join RS2K, was that a mistake for a good verifier?  Giving my work information out gives me a cold chill.

Help!

If you are in Chicago, rs2k is a good service. If you are elsewhere, p411 is a better choice.
As for giving out your work info, they will only use it to verify you. It is generally better to give it out once, to one of the verification services, than to give it out to several providers (who will most likely require it, if you are not a member of a service or don't have provider references.)

I'm not saying that there is never, never has been, never will be.....someone worth a damn on BP.
Are we clear on that now?

What I AM saying is that a brand spanking new noobie has NO business there.
Do you want to see them get overwhelmed and not do the right kind of research just because they don't know any better?
Do you want them to find themselves in a situation where it's just a mattress on the floor.....or some guy outside in a chair....or a bait and switch.....or maybe he gets robbed?!?

Yes....yes....yes.....and again......YES.....to all you guys who LOVE to scan BP for your next cheapie possible gem. I know you love it. I know you see nothing wrong with it. It's your style. Yippee.

But, again, for someone brand new......they need to get a few dates under their belt and deal with noob issues.....like being nervous...screened....how things work...etc.

My point is that digging and researching and learning all the tools required to do so are not what a noob needs to be thinking about. Crawl before you walk.....walk before you run.

MY concern is that noobs have good first experiences, are safe, and learn how to do this correctly.
It seems others are more concerned with standing up for BP.

Hopefully the new guys are smart enough to figure out who to listen to.

Just sayin'
DD

Once again, their starting point is inconsequential. As long as they end up here and verify here, you have no point at all. Because there is trash at BP doesn't mean it is all trash and that one, even a newb, should "never" go there. And the newbs are smart enough to figure out who to listen to. They should listen to the mod of this board. And I really dont think he is more concerned for standing up for BP. That's all I have to say on this matter. I won't continue to argue this point on this board. We just disagree.

You're helping by not arguing your ridiculous point any more.

BP is not for noobs. End of story.
I never said it was all trash. I said it requires research that noobs aren't ready for yet. That's all.

I have offered advice and help to new people.
You...have offered NOTHING other than arguing your point that BP isn't so bad.
If you want to offer helpful advice to new people...then post here.
If you just want to continue disagreements, seemingly endlessly....like you do daily on the GD board....then stay there.

This board is meant to help people. I see you doing none of that.

Just sayin'
DD

Some verification services are geared to local regions. RS is a good example.

He's also dead on correct that it is better to give your info to a legit service ONE time....than to give it to different ladies, with no idea what they will do with it or how they may use it based on their whims.

I've come to like P411. It's nationwide, yet is run by management that is available, responsive, and responsible. It's accepted by probably 80% of legit providers....and the interface and ease of use is fantastic.

Good luck in this. It can be a blast if you avoid the pitfalls. Any questions....feel free to let me know. I'll help any way I can.

Just sayin'
DD

Or feel free to use the search feature that will show you are in error about me "doing none of that." Peace DD. Best, Blue.

She looks hot. She has pretty good reviews, mostly from guys who have multiple other reviews. They seem to indicate in the reviews that she has a good body and great tits, if that is what is attracting you. If it were me, I'd go for it.

As far as backpage is concerned, I use it all the time with mostly good to great results. I use it because I am in a small market area, and it is pretty much the only show in town. If I lived in a city, I probably wouldn't bother with it. I just did a quick search here, for Tampa girls with "super nice" D cup or larger tits. I got 29 PAGES of responses. So who needs backpage?

to his already tedious search? It takes forever to find a provider on BP, and then have to search for each and every name on TER. It takes zero time to hit your city, and have a list of reviews pull with verified ladies, right here.