Some gals will provide either/or and sometimes a mix of both.

Some guys don't want to cuddle, they just want a good old fashion wham, bam thank you maam experience and be off.

There are so many permutations.

I've even heard of necrophiliacs who want the gal to lie motionless and cool her off with cold wet towels first before they take the plunge, so to speak.

"There are more things in heaven and earth than are dreamt of in your philosphy Horatio."