hey guy, my name is natalie. i m 19 yrs old. i started giving nude massages about 3 or 4 months ago and i have so many questions, i would love to get your responses.

1. i only post on backpage.com now, are there any other safe placew to post an ad?

2. i have had men that don't give my $ until after our session, and i know that's not right. how do i ask for it in a polite way?

3. it feels strange to count the $ in front of a guy, but i want to be sure he gave me the right amount. how and when can i count it?

4. i have seen girls with disclaimers on their ad, my doesn't have one. do i need one?

5. i have seen guys that smelled badly when the come over, men that were biking before or jogging? how can i offer them a shower without being offensive?

6. i will only see men over thirty? but i don't say that in my ad. should i?

these are my only questions so far, thanks for answering


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hey there,

1. i use backpage only as a check for possible specials. my main source of advertising information is TER, eros, and personal websites or blogs.

2. in your ad specify that the donation is placed (for example on a counter or table top) on arrival, no exceptions.

3. suggest a trip to the bathrome to freshen up or to remove his clothing. have a robe there for him to use. that should give enough time for you to check the donation discreetly.

4. they don't protect much but they can't hurt.

5. when a client arrives simply direct him to the shower every time. have it be "just the way you do things". if it is a rule you don't have to do a smell check.

6. yes.

and that is regards to screening.

Do you screen?

If not, you should; at the very least you should be getting personal information like home and business if not references.

There is a wide variety of opinion on what constitutes the best forms of screening, but there is pretty universal agreement that some needs to be done.

I, for one, do not feel comfortable seeing a gal who does not screen.  It makes me ask why I want to see someone who is so apparently unconcerned about her safety.  It also makes me wonder whether perhaps she is LE trying to lure me in.

I wish you much luck and success in your FBSM business.  I love massage and you gals are always near and dear to my heart.

1. I don't use BP
2. Have the donation info spelled out on whatever ad you post. PRIOR to commencement.
3.I don't like counting in front of me either. Tex's idea is muy perfecto.
4. Almost pointless
5.A guy showing up unclean is RUDE!!!! Once again,tex's idea is a big plus
6. You should.And make it part of your screening.

and there is one small ambiguity i'd suggest clarifying.

in your outcall rates make clear whether the $50 extra is total (extra $50 for the visit) or on the rate (extra $50 per hour).

i've seen it done both ways and would suggest that making it clear will head off any misunderstandings.