I've had a few wonderful encounters with providers who have requested they not be reviewed. I really enjoyed the time we spent and would have liked to review them, but have honored their wishes. Anyone have any thoughts on how to handle these requests ?

You did the right thing by complying with their wishes.  Especially if you want to see them again...

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you are wise to abide by their wishes.  Of course you can feel free to review them, just don't expect to ever see them again and maybe even other good providers too.  They may report you to escort bad client services like dangerzone.

Of course if there was anything dangerous, a rob or an upsell, then you should by all means, review them.

There are many reasons for a lady not wanting reviews, many legitimate and worthy of respect.  A good provider who wishes that no reviews be written is usually a gem to cherish.

There are many that want to stay UTR - Under The Radar.  There are lots of reasons why she wants it that way: family, friends, school, real job, boyfriend, child custody issues, etc.  All reasonable and worthy of respect.

If they don't want to be reviewed then don't review them.  They have their reasons.

Both of my ATF's are UTR ladies.  One has never had a presence on TER and has never had a review. She is as busy as she wants to be without any help from TER.

If you enjoyed spending time with them you should respect their wishes.

My atf had her reviews removed from TER, she has her reasons, just like other providers who wish not to be reviewed.

My ATF is very low profile...  has a day job.  Has legit concerns.  I have honored her request...  Breaking her rules would spoil an otherwise rewarding experience.

skb

If the provider is less than stellar, a review should be written.....PERIOD!

If she advertises then she should be revewied. If she has her client base established and not seeking new ones, then honor her request.  If you met her at a meet and greet and hobbyist you trust reccommend her but in my case, I depend on TER, so mits her lost

R-E-S-P-E-C-T

Thanks for the feedback. Have honored their wishes and will continue to do so. But they were so good!!!

In that case unless you were the perfect client you should be placed on a BCL. Wow, there wouldn't be very many active hobbyists around now would there if we thought along the lines you do.

You're right, Famke, there wouldn't be many active hobbyists.  In fact, I believe I'm the only perfect client out there, so I think I'd have all the ladies to myself.

Such as upsell, B&S, or other less than honorable practices, agree...spill the beans!  I was referring to quality UTR ladies being left alone, not the ROB's we all need to know about!

not rocket science.  Some ladies prefer to stay way UTR.