Pretty Often, It is perfectly normal...

Since I often see gentlemen who are complete newbies to the hobby, they are often very nervous. I always like to take a few minutes and talk about their fears, and help allay them before getting more intimate.

One suggestion might be to take an unopened bottle of wine to share with your next provider. Book a longer session, like 90 minutes to 2 hours. This way you can enjoy a glass of wine and some small talk before the festivities... This often helps loosen you up a little, and calm those nerves a little.

Just make sure that you ask ahead of time if this is ok, and what kind of wine she likes... I think it is always a romantic and intimate gesture.

Serene is right - Wine works WONDERS!

After a long day of arduous work I agree that a glass of wine certainly helps calm the nerves when I'm meeting someone new.  Even though I'm not sexually inexperienced, I still sometimes get a little anxious with a new woman.  

I think many of the ladies, especially the genuine GFE ones, appreciate this gesture.  Just don't bring cheapo vino like Boone's Farm.  A good 90pt wine will please almost any lady and provide a very soothing environment to allow you both to relax and get those erotic juices moving.

I'm usually nervous when I go to a date with a provider, especially when I have not seen her before.  A little chitchat with her, and I'm fine.

Swim

Re: Providers: How often do you get clients that are not sexually experienced or that are nervous?

not only that they are nervous, but they also seam to be changing in the age group as far as the 21 to 25 range..