Guys, I have seen a single prov and via email asked her to provide a ref to another prov.  She was accomodating, but in her email copy to me seemed somewhat miffed that I wasn't seeing her again.  I don't want to shoot myself in the foot here as I liked my initial prov.  On the other hand...well, you know!

Some providers get jealous about others taking their clients, but they need to understand that we like variety.  Try to assuage her feelings by assuring her you'll definitely see her very soon (that is if you are honestly going to), and perhaps setup a future date so she knows your not just moving along if staying in her good graces is important to you.  If she can't take that as an answer then it might be a good idea to simply get verified on DateCheck, P411, or RS2K to get in the door with another provider.  She still may want to you to give more screening info to her such as employer information, etc.  

Fact is nothing beats a good reference.  The ladies like to know what type of guy they are going to see.  The last provider I saw explained it to me like this: when she calls references she wants to hear that he was a great guy, that she enjoyed her time with him, and that she'd definitely want to see him again.  Getting whitelisted on TER will help to.  Good luck, and happy hobbying!

If you 'get the feeling' that she was 'somewhat miffed' about you seeing someone else... Then she doesn't 'get it' that this is a hobby, and variety is what it is all about!

I will admit I have been surprised when a newbie ventured out.. but never miffed! I am happy that I get to introduce new guys to this... and it is a natural and lovely progression when they go off to enjoy the wares of other lovely ladies!

I will leave it to you... but you shouldn't have to deal with a reference unfriendly provider!

Hugs,
Serene

Serene was right on the $. It's part of the biz, if she was miffed, I wouldn't worry to much about it. However, I might think twice about using her as a reference the next time you need one. And always remember to give the lady, who ever it might be,  a heads up, you're using her as a ref. Good luck.

Some providers give referances & others do not...  It's part of the game.  The thing is, all providers should understand that this is NOT a relationship.  It is well if a client does NOT see you exclusively...  because those are th guys that "fall in love with you (r provider personna).  
If I click with a lady, I probably will add her to my list of Favs & will see her again.  As a matter of fact, I do not use up my limited hobbying opportunities with hot ladies I just want a fling with...  I choose potential Favs where we know that we can have a great time.  (I realize I may be unusual, I've never seen a study on this.)
Just as ladies will decline clients who become possesive, clients should be wary of ladies who become possesive, clingy, or think they own US.  

Just my point of view,
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for us clients is to get the feeling that you have the expectation that we owe you something other than what's in the envelope.

Speaking for myself, that's one thing that will definately mitigate against me wanting to go back and see you.

In other words, rather than encouraging us to come and see you again, such actions actually end up doing the opposite.

where the gent DIDN'T eventually circle around back to see me!

And I happily give not only references but recommendations on other ladies if I am asked..

It makes me glad when a gent shows that he respects my opinion and 'industry' knowledge enough to ask for a recommendation either in this city or any other city... I have often helped a local friend 'research' a city he is traveling to as well...

I travel alot so I'm usually not in town when the mood strikes so, I have no issue giving a refernces for a great guy. Most of the time when our courtship is over and you have been a great guy I will tell you if you ever need a ref feel free to use me, as I know some ladies are very funny about this.

...any established, professional, mature (in mind, not as in age group) provider will certainly understand and want to provide references for another provider.  Those of us who want to appear professional will realize that this is a necessary part of the "hobby," and certainly will not be offended if a client wishes to see another provider!  Men enjoy variety, and I am sure we do, too!  

I just don't understand the providers who do not want to help look out for the safety and well being of other providers...and their clients!

In summary, one lady giving a reference to another lady helps keep the hobby safer for all.  Yes, variety is an essential part of this.  

Also, a hobbyist should ask a lady if it is OK to use her as a reference.