Have any of you guys met a provider who was so cute and nice that you weren't turned on by her sexually.  You liked her a lot but didn't want to have sex with her because, dare I say it, you viewed her in a "fatherly" way, if she was much younger.  This is bugging me! I guess I need to see older providers.

I agree with your last sentence.But I can't quite figure out why you would choose to see a provider that didn't turn you on sexually.Isn't that the object of the hobby?

Haven't you ever seen a girl on the the beach, at the mall, or on the street. Your thoughts wander, the little head gets interested, and then the big head kicks in, realises she is jailbait, and you are left feeling guilty.

This isn't a question of seeing ladies who don't turn you on, but how not to feel guilty by some of the ladies that do turn you on.

In that context then yeah,I'd agree with you.Sure,I've seen civvies in the mall,etc.and thought that way.But his specific question asked about "seeing a provider" and feeling that way. So unless the provider is underage and illegal,then I'll stick with my original opinion.

I got turned down before when I was in a lineup of ladies at a massage parlor. I reminded him of his daughter which was a little too creepy for him. It kind of shocked everyone cause I was dressed up in the popular "schoolgirl" attire and was only about 20 at the time. Go figure. I respected his decision and removed myself so that he could comfortably make his decision.

I'm talking about a girl in her 20's. You don't really know if she's the really sweet type or a little nasty til you meet her.  That's what I'm sayin'.

Well, if the lady's pictures blur her face, and her reviews are good, and she has a nice body that attracted him it is possible that a man could see an ad for a lady, be turned on and then meet her to have a different reaction.

Perhaps she had great body pics, no face showing, or face blurred, and he went on her reviews and what he could see in the photos...which may have attracted him.

Then in meeting, got to see how "cute" she was and actually interact with her which led to the "nice" designation.

I know a lady from a different board, her site is great, body amazing, pictures show no face, and her posts on that board are smart and flirtatious...
I have met her twice in social get togethers, never for an appointment, and seeing her face, talking with her, and seeing her mannerism, ect. I  don't and can't think of her sexual terms.  She still has the amazing body that is in her pictures, and she really is the smart, flirty lady she is in posts, and emails...but that doesn't translate into attraction in person.  Now, with her it isn't an age thing, she is in her late 20's - early 30's, I'm in my mid 30's...but the spark just isn't there...though it was when all I knew of her was her site...it happens, though a lot of people do find her very attractive in person and become regular clients.

Edited to fix a typo, and add, that the lady I mention is lovely, nothing wrong with her face at all...lest anyone assume I meant otherwise.

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Blind?    Just wondering... I know, get a life.. I'll try

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Trust me, you're not their father. (Unless you really WERE her father, which would probably be both awkward and horrifying for both of you.) A cute young spinner is a wonderful treat for men of any age. The older you are, the "dirtier" it seems. And that makes it even hotter.

In no time flat, you will be plowing her cornsilk.