the reviews for this provider stated in the juicy details that she performed this service.
i just met with a very sweet provider with 6 reviews.all reviews stated one service was available, which was what attracted me to her. she denied ever providing this service to clients.do any other providers experience this problem? i mean, i doubt all 6 clients falsified their reviews. any info ?
If the service was stated on the reviews six times that's a bit weird, maybe she did provide the service, changed her mind and did not want to do it anymore. I frequently check my reviews for accuracy, I guess next time you can always PM the lady and ask her if the reviews constitute exactly the menu of services that she offers, she can always tell you whether that's the case or not. I would imagine that the vast majority of providers do read their reviews and correct the mistakes..
that give her a higher potential TER score... even though the facts are FALSE. She can claim that she did not post them.
In this case, I think you should file a problem report and ask TER to correct her profile... if TER can get her to admit the mistake, it will be corrected. It may be that later reviewers just copied the previous review... though, you would think that the majority of reviews would be correct. I would have relied on the consensus as well. If it is something you especially desired, I would have PMs some recent previous reviewers. If no one files a report, it will never get corrected.
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However, w/o asking her directly, there is prob no way to know for sure. Since her menu was established by her first provider, and subsequent reviews do not change her profile, unless the guys said she did such-and-such in the text of their reviews, she may not have ever provided that service. If that's not the case, I have no idea what to tell you. I had one provider ask me to say she did CBJ instead of BBBj, since she wanted the option of not doing or doing the BBBj, depending on how she viewed the client.
Paloma, I have to disagree with you on your statement that most providers read their reviews. I don't think they do, especially if they have a lot, there is no need, and they know what happened. Young providers may not even know about TER and reviews. But, that's just my opinion.
Swim
I am new to the community, and I read every review. I think its necessary in oder to provide the best services possible. How would I know if I were doing something wrong unless I read my reviews?
Paloma, I have to disagree with you on your statement that most providers read their reviews. I don't think they do, especially if they have a lot, there is no need, and they know what happened. Young providers may not even know about TER and reviews. But, that's just my opinion.
Swim
...of each review that she provided this service or is it simply listed as available on her profile? If it's just on the profile then as swimtrekr said it may not be accurate. If each of the review details stated she did it during that session there may be a reason she couldn't or wouldn't do it for you. No way to know that unless she would tell you. Hard to even speculate without knowing what that service is.
...because there was something about you that made her not want to do it. Without knowing what the service was, it's only speculation.
the reviews for this provider stated in the juicy details that she performed this service.
...reason or all six guys were not completely honest. Maybe they would tell you by PM if you have PM. Not much else can be done unless you want to press it with her. Probably not a good idea. Just chalk it up to ymmv. I've never had it happen to me but that's a small sample.
Was you hygiene squeaky clean? Did you behave like a gentleman? Where under the influence of alcohol or other drugs when you met her? Did you follow the instructions on her website to a "T" regarding the meeting?
Better luck next time.
providers mention in particular on their website that you are never to discuss any type of sex acts at the appointment before during or after......
there is such a thing called audio surveillance.
sure you can laugh now laugh until Sunday at happens to one of you are one of your friends and then you won't think it's so funny.
there is audio and visual surveillance in the event you were under a sting and let's just say you happens to be a DT
if you said hey what about the cum in mouth part? Can we do that?
depending on what's going on and that woman's life
in this field I have found there are times whete you need to treat EVERY
conversation as though it is being recorded.
that could be one reason why.
I think if you go through eros and read a lot of the women's websites and they're at a kids you'll find that many don't want to be asked certain things about illegal sex acts in exchange for money.before or during the session.
what they will ask that you can hand in the direction you like things to go.
also if a man has let's just say bad breath or any type of a body odor of hygiene issue.
then there are no rules saying that she has to do everything listed with every single man who walks in the door.
there are no rules stating that you have to treat everyone the same despite how they are.
I am NOT saying anything to insult you but many of times I have had guys come here that has a little bit of a body odor
and then I will ask them if they could please go jump in the shower or I will have to ask them to go and use mouthwash.
I will make sure to have a face cloth when they go into the shower
surprisingly there are a lot of full grown men who do not know to use a face cloth when they are washing in the shower
I've had several men be hesitant to washing with a face cloth in the shower
and then I would ask from you don't use a face cloth to wash your armpits and balls at home?
and they will say no I don't
I wouldn't be saying this to insult anyone but if people do not use a face cloth when they're washing their bodies in the shower they're not really cleaning of body odor or germs'
I know also those clear deodorant really do not work
maybe you were using a clear deodorant that day?
or maybe you had eaten some garlic that was lingering'
I mean its no big deal every once in awhile people will use a deodorant it doesn't quite work as well or someone will eat someone with garlic and then they happen to forget and do it before the appointment
I have had many a client show up that was not up to par'
I would chalk it up as a loss and move on to the next lady and hope that you can get what you want at the next session
I offer quite a lot of services on my profile but most definitely we can never do all of them in an hour'
and I will let people know which ones I am in the mood for and which ones I am not in the mood for
but then I let them know that they are the customer and if they are really really obsessed with certain things we can try to do them
the really tough one is Greek because there's definitely times where is completely impossible to do Greek with certain people
and of course I definitely times when I wouldn't want to do greek.
I try not to do Greek if I have just drink prune juice but usually turns into a un planned brown shower.
okay okay you can laugh here I am joking people.
I'm sorry I just have to be goofy it sometimes and say crazy things
I don't know I mean if I was a guy I would definitely just kind of like the happy enough to have gone to see the lady I don't know-
but then again if I was a guy I would be in the same way as I am is a female is that I love to have plenty of money to do whatever I want
I know for me if I go somewhere and I don't like the way they do my nails I just don't go back and I bite my tongue
you wouldn't believe how many times I've gone to get a mani and a pedi and walked out so disappointed and annoyed
but being someone who went to school for hairdressing it is so difficult to do a manicure and a pedicure and I feel like a if I don't like their style I don't have to go back to them
there are actually only two places in Massachusetts that I would go get my nails done at this exact moment in time
and that's from the South Shore from Quincy South Boston all the way up through Lynn
Saugus- even New Hampshire'
no okay I am wrong there's about four places I like to get my nails done
I would say just work a little harder and suck it up and don't ever go back to them and move on to someone else until you find someone you like
I don't know for me I am Not really weird about talking about stuff unless I feel like I am under any type of targeting.
I mean there's basically a big list and they go through that list and when you are the one that is being targeted you will know and that's around the time will you have to be careful not to do specific agreements verbal or via over the airways.
maybe she just has to be extra careful right now because she is on the feds hit list or the local cops hit list.
you never know every lady goes through. A time where she might be having to be xtra careful.
I mean to bring to do a sex act during an appointment with the first time clients I don't know if that's something you would want to do unless you really trust the person
again audio and visual surveillance is real and it is used very often
take it from someone who has a boyfriend first hand that had been friends with one of his friends that it happened to.
whoa pretty lady!!! my original post was do any providers ever have clients post that you provided services that you actually did not do. that was the question.
I would aggree with Angel......
If someone has an odor, or just gives off a vibe of not being clean (some providers see only married men so they feel comfortable that the guy is clean cuz he will be going home & having relations with his wife, so he's the type to not be out at the bar taking chances with different civvies), that could make a difference of whether the girl does something uncovered verses covered.
I guess we need some clarification of exactly what she wouldn't do with you.
The other thing is a big one, if someone walks in asking for illegal services, it's probably doubtful he will get anything more than a basic massage......
especially like the guy I had a cple weeks ago, who refused to get undressed, wanted to know exactly what he was going to get for his money.......then said, I want to know how much it's going cost me to get a good blow job. (which I told him to get on ter read the newbie board and figure it out)
You had men who didn't use a washrag?!?!
Gag.
I think I have had every kind of luffa, scrubber, terry-cloth, micro fiber, bristle, pumice... You name it! I take my baths very seriously!
..... and....
And my customer motto is: I give them what they want, what they pay for, I stfu, I do it with a smile, kiss kiss hug hug, then leave.
If I don't feel "up to it" - I don't bother to punch the clock.
Why give sub-par service?
My clients pay me well. They take care of me, and I take care of them right back!
-- and in general, this whole thread is funny.
If he wanted such & such ACTION there's no law saying he couldn't flat out ask.... Just follow the rule of never mentioning sex & money TOGETHER.
Me? I usually ask the man upfront what he would like to happen... I either laugh seductively or tell him, "Baby, I don't do that." And keep it moving.
My customers buy my time. My menu is my menu. Either I do it or I don't (barring the hygiene of the man; Then it's YMMV!!! xD)
I will make sure to have a face cloth when they go into the shower
surprisingly there are a lot of full grown men who do not know to use a face cloth when they are washing in the shower
I've had several men be hesitant to washing with a face cloth in the shower ...
(....AND....)
I will let people know which ones I am in the mood for and which ones I am not in the mood for
but then I let them know that they are the customer and if they are really really obsessed with certain things we can try to do them
Im with Foxy on "don't punch the clock" if youre not feeling "up to it", if Im not feeling it, it shows, for me, Im a believer in the cliché "you never get a 2nd chance to make the 1st impression" Bad hair day, in a "funk", not feeling it = half stepping performance = unhappy client. My .02