but for some reason they just didn't click. He still had a good time and the fact that they didn't click shouldn't be held against the provider. I also think if he gave her lower than her usual scores because they didn't click he is saying don't let those scores hold you back from seeing her if you're so inclined.
It's no different than going out with a woman and while there was nothing bad about the date, you just didn't feel any sparks. You certainly could have had a nice time (enjoyed the conversation, the dinner, the Broadway show, etc.) and not felt as if you wasted your evening, but at the end of the day, you don't ask her out again. It was like going out with a friend rather than a lover.
The world of hobbying is no different. You could have a good time with the provider (sex was good, conversation flowed nicely, she was attractive, etc.), but at the end of the day you just didn't click with her enough to warrant repeating. Some aspect of the session that's important to you wasn't there. You leave the appointment satisfied, but for whatever reason you don't want to see her again. It's an expensive hobby and your cash should be spent wisely. Repeat business should be left for sessions that leave you speechless.
you've been hobbying long enough. It's possible to have a good time, pop a nut, but just don't feel like it was a good fit between you and her. It happens in the hobby, just as in real life dating. So, if there were no 'sparks', don't see her again, no harm, no foul. There are plenty of others for you and her to spend time with.
That although very important to many of us, "connection" can be hard to define. A lot of it has to do with the guy's personal preferences, which obviously the woman can't control. In other cases, it's a codeword for the woman being tired or mentally somewhere else during the session.
As swim mentioned, it happens. If you see it in only one review for a provider, don't sweat it too much. If it shows as a pattern with a particular provider, that may indicate a problem to avoid...
as I think the best of the best will be able to create a "feeling" of connection more often than not. So in most cases, I do think that "lack of connection" does have a relation to performance (unless the guy is just flat out not attracted to the lady and would rather blame "lack of connection" than directly address this). Look at it this way, if half the guys mention lack of connection, or lack of chemistry, or YMMV for a lady, then that would be an indicator not to be ignored. On the other hand, if all reviews talk about clicking, a great GFE attidude etc., then your odds of "connecting" with her go up too I think.
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