How does the whole provider referral thing work?

she can give you a whitelist referral on this site.  That simply means she saw you, you are not LEO, and you are ok to see.  It just lets other providers know it's safe to have a date with you.

If that's not what you're trying to find out about, please clarify in a reply.

LLAP,
Swim

In that case, you (speaking to the OP now) will have had to have seen another provider who is willing to give you a referral, and usually most gals have about a 90 day cut off for this.

If you have seen a gal within 90 days, write to her and ask if she is willing to give you a referall.  If she says yes, then send that provider's (referring to the one willing to give a referral) information to the provider who is requesting a referral and if all goes to plan, you should be fine.

If you have not seen a gal within the last 90 days, then your options are to find a newbie friendly provider and/or join a screening service like P411.  There are a lot of threads on this board about the latter if you do some research.

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Thanks.  That's what I thought.  Is it appropriate to ask a provider for a whitelist reference?