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Provider references
4morefun 17 Reviews 1606 reads
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I'm not exactly a newbie, but have always wondered this.  When provider A contacts provider B to give a reference for you, what type of information is shared?  Is it just a thumbs up that this guy is not a cop or do they go into any detail about the session?  How about age, interests, did he tip, cleanliness, promptness, politeness, etc.  I imagine it depends on the providers, but was wondering if there is any rule of thumb.

-- Modified on 12/10/2012 7:51:39 AM

on both sides of the question. Some ladies just want very basic information, and some will only give out very basic information. (ie thumbs up or thumbs down, would she see him again?) Others will share more info. I doubt any will go into "details" about a session, but they may share a guy's likes or dislikes, and basic stuff like you mentioned. (politeness, hygiene etc.)

One of my provider friends has said in the past that the only info she gives out or asks for is the following: "Yes I saw him. He came. He left. He paid. I would see him again"

It does depend on the provider.  However I don't think you will get much response from the ladies.  Reason being, I don't think many of them really want us to know how much or how little info they pass back and forth, I know if I was a provider, I wouldn't, other than the basics as PS mentioned.  If I was asked as a provider for specific info, I might provide it if I knew her and trusted her.  Otherwise, just the basics.

Swim

No rule of thumb- btw, we're not just concerned about LE. There are 100 other reasons why one provider may not recommend a prior client.  (your comments re: cleanliness, promptness and politeness are right on as a few of them) As well, provider B may learn something that is off-putting, although it didn't bother A one bit. This does not mean it is something horrific, or potential trouble. I get a lot of responses such as "yes, he was fine, I'd see him again" but I will say I truly appreciate a couple of words in addition.  I do ask for pertinent info that may be helpful to me. It is not just my own interests I have in mind, here. My reason is the same as why I'm interested in reading reviews; I want to KNOW what he ENJOYS and show a fab time.

Please be assured that as legitimate providers, discretion is just as important to us and we respect your privacy because we want ours respected, too.  If what you're really getting at is do we share personal information regarding a client if we are privvy to it? Absolutely not.

If you have a regular or ATF you see, ask her thoughts-

~Astrid

Posted By: 4morefun
I'm not exactly a newbie, but have always wondered this.  When provider A contacts provider B to give a reference for you, what type of information is shared?  Is it just a thumbs up that this guy is not a cop or do they go into any detail about the session?  How about age, interests, did he tip, cleanliness, promptness, politeness, etc.  I imagine it depends on the providers, but was wondering if there is any rule of thumb.

-- Modified on 12/10/2012 7:51:39 AM

I want to know a lot of shit before I accept a date, and only a select few are willing to share those details. Another woman saying she would see a guy again, does not mean that I want to be anywhere near him. For the sake of legalities, we don't talk about explicit sex acts, but I damn well ask how "big" he is below, or how much actual fkin took place. I want to know if he is a pse trying to get a gfe rate.

LR, you sound like a guy who has a great rack and a vagina.  And I mean that in a good way.

saturnsky261 reads

I need certain details to make an informed choice. I have refused references from those who are only willing to say "Yeah I have seen him". Like you, size matters and the amount of action is very important to me.  I don't want to disappoint  and nor do I need to be placed into a position where it might turn nasty if am not willing to just deal with said situation and stand by my boundaries.

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