: Newbie - FAQ Discussion : provider rates in email

Gntlmn153 1147 reads

posted 11 years ago

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So a highly reviewed provider agreed to see me being verified through p411.
On her second email an hour later she listed how much the session would cost me.
Is this normal ? I'm a nervous newbie so everything strikes me as strange.
I'm I just paranoid?

Thanks for the input !

swimtrekr 59 Reviews 606 reads

posted 11 years ago

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If she had no rates posted anywhere,

either you would have to ask her or she would voluntarily tell you. It's OK as long as no sexual activities are mentioned in the email. If she said something like 'the donation for my time is $XXX', there is nothing wrong with it.

LLAP,
Swim

GaGambler 531 reads

posted 11 years ago

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If she is highly reviewed I wouldn't be worried at all by this

Now if an un reviewed woman sends you an e mail stating "A one hour appointment including sex and a blow job is $300" NOW you have something to worry about.

A simple "my donation is $300 for the hour, looking forward to meeting you" from a highly reviewed provider is absolutely nothing to worry about.

Gntlmn153 538 reads

posted 11 years ago

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Re: If she is highly reviewed I wouldn't be worried at all by this

That makes sense. Thanks !!

Gntlmn153 498 reads

posted 11 years ago

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Re: If she had no rates posted anywhere,

Makes sense! Thanks !

skarphedin 447 reads

posted 11 years ago

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GaG is right. But what was the actual wording? I am curious. -e-

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cocktail-party 488 reads

posted 11 years ago

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She just wants to make sure you're clear on the rate to avoid any confusion.

Just as hotels vary their rates based on location and demand, so will many a-touring companion. They may also experiment with various rate structures in order to figure out their optimal price points. And oftentimes there are old ads or websites with different rates that she either doesn't know about or hasn't been able to take down.

What she doesn't want to happen is for you to show up short on funds and claim that you saw a different rate or discount somewhere.

NoelleSmth See my TER Reviews 451 reads

posted 11 years ago

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all of the above and an add'l note

As GaGambler stated, if she has no info posted anywhere, it's really the only way you'll know. Also, the fact that she's well-reviewed helps.

But it was good for you to notice, and ask.

For some of us who amply provide all info a gentleman needs to know, even the mere discussion of rate is a big NO-NO! There are occasions where it has been printed out and used against her, even without having "both factors" contained in the email.

Duplicitouslust 24 Reviews 328 reads

posted 11 years ago

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Funny that you said that

Noelle, funny that you said that. I was on Preferred 411 today and I was looking at a girls website and I noticed that she didn't have her email address listed or what she needed for verification. Although it is not quite as incriminating as donations at least in this case I contacted her through the verification site to ask that information. That is one of the safer ways in which to accomplish that request.