If so, you can simply ask if the donation in her profile is accurate. If she has no reviews and you are asking a question like this, you are most likely not at the stage of the game yet to be TOFTT and you should probably move onto a "well reviewed TER provider"
Another way to ask is to simply be honest. "In trying to learn more about you before we meet, I was hoping to find something regarding the expected donation for your time, I don't seem to able to find anything in that regard, could you give me a bit of guidance please. I was planning on visiting with you for ninety minutes" Something like that should never get you in hot water, but my above advice stands in regards to seeing un reviewed providers until you get a bit more experience.
Yes she has TER reviews... they are great reviews! and a website... gorgous pics... neither lists a donation amount... I have never asked or negotiated, I've just gone on with the program
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If so, you can simply ask if the donation in her profile is accurate. If she has no reviews and you are asking a question like this, you are most likely not at the stage of the game yet to be TOFTT and you should probably move onto a "well reviewed TER provider"
Another way to ask is to simply be honest. "In trying to learn more about you before we meet, I was hoping to find something regarding the expected donation for your time, I don't seem to able to find anything in that regard, could you give me a bit of guidance please. I was planning on visiting with you for ninety minutes"
Something like that should never get you in hot water, but my above advice stands in regards to seeing un reviewed providers until you get a bit more experience.
...you don't have access to everything in the provider's profile and reviews. Many things will say VIP where the information would be if you could see it. The VIP is only $30 a month and well worth the price considering what you would save by avoiding an unsatisfactory session. You can use a gift card to purchase the VIP anonymously. You won't get exactly one month for $30 but pretty close. If you choose to purchase it this way it simply ends when the time is up.
Here is a link to the purchase info. Click on the gift card info at the bottom of the page after you click the link I included. You'll find more details.
That gift card option is sweet. That makes it easy - just pick up a $50 Starbucks card, enter in the numbers on TER, and voila! You're a VIP.
Then you get the 14-day bonus for posting a review - so, one way to handle your problem is to go see someone whose rates are available, post a review, and check out this lady's rates while you're in the 2-week window. If the lady has her own website, donation rates are almost always available there, and non-VIPs can get there from the TER link. The subtext that should be called out here, also, is "Don't let yourself get so set on seeing a particular girl that you TOFTT in a bad way. Plenty of fish in the sea."
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