I'm new to this and I'd like to see a provider that does not have a donation listed.  What is the correct way to handle this when scheduling an appointment?

Send an email inquiry I suppose.

to do so. Discussing sex and money are the hugest no-nos in this biz. Do not go there.

I do not know if this applies to you but let me say:

DO NOT make the noobie mistake of falling in love with *pictures*.....a higher percentage of them than you would ever want to believe are either not real or not representative.

Skip shopping escort malls- too high a percentage of fakes, bait and switch and come ons for web cam shows and "verification" sites you have to pay with a credit cards. SCAM SCAM SCAM

Instead, why not shop the TER review system? Input your specifications on the review search page and VOILA - you can find many ladies in your area who provide what you want at a rate you like and see their reviews....

Once you have read the Newbie manual & these pages throughly...  you'll know ebough to shop wisely.  At that point you'll be ready for VIP.  It'll cost way less than one spoiled date.  

Learn to use the TER reviews & how to search & cross check.  You should be able to find a price on her ad or web site.  The prices on the profile page may not be up to date.  You do need to read the full reviews...  just because a provider is listed does not mean she offers what you want, the pictures are current, or the appointment went well.  

Best Wishes,
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