Was wondering if anybody had firm opinions about provider age - and quality of experience?  I was reading a couple of reviews here locally - and saw one older provider (in her 40's - but still a beaut) and the reviews consistently were about her taking more time, making hobbyist feel more relaxed - less hurried.

Opinions?

I prefer the mature provider but everyone is different. At 51, I'm looking for a connection beyond the "O"

(lyric from an early 80's country/western song)

 Although there ARE exceptions; most of the deservedly best rated providers are 30+ and many are in their mid to late 40s. A few in fact are well into their 50s and still look awesome and are masters at making you feel like a king.

ALthough the appeal of being with the younger lady has it's appeal, I think that the 30+ ladies seem to be more into all the aspects.  Not just physical but the quality of the experience.  But, I do love ALL the ladies and I will continue my research

Yes, we must all conduct our own research...

Rooney that is

"Women get psychic as they age, you never have to confess your sins to an older woman, they already know "

I am soon to be 55 and I rarely see younger providers. However, when I first began hobbying I did. Now I see ladies that are upper 30's and 40+.

I think there are several factor involved.

One I want to take time and enjoy the session. I don't have to turn the provider every way and have sex in every position before I leave because if I like the Lady I will see her enough times to enjoy these things as they occur.

Second, due to my age I simply relate to the older provider's issues of life better than the issues a provider in her 20's might have. I have children in their 30's and as I saw younger providers I often found myself wanting to counsel them almost as a parent. Obviously, as  a hobbyist that mix of relationships doesn't work.

Finally, although I do like the provider to be reasonably attractive, much of the enjoyment of seeing a provider is in learning their personality and enjoying her as a person as well.

These things considered, I simply enjoy being with the ladies who are a little older.

TOMC

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Hello, I am Colleen a provider that is in her mid 40's.  I so enjoy being with a man and then pleasing him.  I enjoy a man's company and want to make them comfortable before I begin to enjoy the pleasing of him.  

I so felt flattered and proud by reading TOMC's message.  Your a very smart man, at least I think you are.  Take care and enjoy life.

Colleen
Your Favorite Irish Lady

All of you had wonderful messages on this topic.

Huggs,

Colleen

Collen,

Thank you for you gracious comments and well wishes.

When I read the reviews of some of the Hobbyist's, it seems that some us forget that the you as Providers are real people and not objects. You have likes and dislike that we should respect.

I am old enough too know that I don't need to hurry. For me, it is fulfilling to learn about each other (to the extent we fill comfortable doing so) and enjoy each other as people.

I try to savor the moments and enjoy my time with each lady.

Take care and enjoy life your life as well.

TOMC

Yes, life is short, we should charish it and embrace it with all of our being.  

I like to make a man comfortable and feel safe with me, as I want to feel the same with him.  I spend some special time with him unless he is not wanting anything but to take care of his lambito, lol.  I have definately learned that we should enjoy each and every person we have the pleasure to meet, even if its just for short period of time.  We are a unique and complex species, we should look in awe at our differences, respect and learn from them all instead of fearing them and wanting to make them as we are.  Knowledge is power and wisdom is honorable and enlightening.

Thanks all,

Colleen

I like providers between 22 and 28.  I'm in my early 20's, so a provider my age will feel like a true GFE.  Really young providers, as in 18 to 20, can be fun, but sometimes don't fully understand how to make a man feel at ease.  Most people here say that provider in their 30's are really good, but any provider over 32 would just be too old for me.  To each his own, I guess.
Regards,
I_Like_Escorts