Do you guys ever do 30 minute sessions? Do you walk away feeling fulfilled or is it always best to do at least an hour with a lady? The only reason I'm considering a 30 min sessions is financial reasons and it is someone I've been dying to see who is in my area so I'm not gonna pass it up but I just worry 30 min will go by to fast. Also, do providers get annoyed with guys who only want 30 minutes? Sometimes my financial situation won't allow a full hour of fun.

30  or 40 inns sessions , however, some sessions, with independents ,  intended to last longer went south very quickly and may have not lasted that long.

I would recommend trying to see the difference between 60 and 30 minutes and if your budget can tolerate it , given that this is a girl you really want to see, perhaps tighten your belt and go for the 60 mins. The obvious difference is feeling rushes , that takes something from the session , secondly could be what is served on the menu as well as a few minutes getting to know one another. In the KAAMPs the welcome and goodbye showers can take 15 mins in a regular session so the may be done away with and that may scale back the menu.

I would think that providers would like 30 mins sessions because it could be less work for nearly similar money. Even the top K-dolls do 30 mins sessions. In BA it's more common and is listed in the add.

My advise to you again is to make this a special occasion and to go for the 60 mins.

anyone do a 30 minute session unless they want to just feel like one of many for the day. IMO a 30 minute session is really ugly, but that is my opinion. Even an hour is too short sometimes. If you are just wanting to get off and have no connecti on nor any real pleasure by all means a 30 minute session would be all you need. I'm sure there are girls who still do these. Most of us mature women enjoy giving you an experience you won't soon forget and it will take a minimum of an hour. We actually prefer multiple hour appointments. Save up and do your research and find a well reviewed lady to rock your world instead of a quickie that may leave you less satisfied.

i love thirty minute sessions..it totally depends on who i am seeing..if i am seeing a porn star i will be book a half hour..independents are always a hour..a hour will give you time to explore without being rushed..most porn stars will not cuddle and bullshit for long..they know exactly how to get please..i am always fulfilled either way..they are never annoyed when you book a half hour..half hour girls are usually booked solidly..they can see more clients in a limited amount of time..

This allows for enough time to get acquainted and comfortable. Then for many reasons including yours I'll opt for a HH on subsequent visits if offered.

mac, the provider I plan on seeing is a pornstar so that is why I can only swing 30 minutes, due to her rates obviously. But she has good reviews so I am now confident that I will be pleased.

For me, one hour is not enough. I usually book 2 hour sessions. But I am looking for a whole experience. For many, one hour is perfect. For guys who just need to "bust a nut," half hour sessions work.  (Some even do 15 minute sessions). You need to figure out what your needs are. If you think you can be satisfied in a half hour, then do it. If it is strictly financial reasons that make you want to book 1/2 hour, and you think you might leave unfulfilled, then don't do it. Save up more money and do a one hour session less often.

As for the ladies being annoyed, that depends. Any lady who offers a half hour session on her ads or website, will be fine with it (or she wouldn't offere it). If a lady only offers a one hour session and you ask for a half hour session, then she might be annoyed. Also if you book a half hour session but you try to make it last longer, because you didn't "finish," she will be annoyed.

If a lady offers a 30 minute session and that works for you financially, then by all means book the appointment. She will not get annoyed with you for partaking in a service she offers. Now, where a lady will get annoyed with you is if she states clearly (either on her website or in communications with you) that she does not offer a 30 minute session and you persist on trying to book one. Trying to negotiate a 1/2 hour session when her policy is an hour minimum will usually end in her not wanting to see you.

Now if a lady is amenable to a 30 minute session, you have to then ask yourself what you really want out of the appointment. If your sole purpose is to come in, immediately strip, get laid, and leave, then a short session may be perfect. If you want a little more out of the session (some conversation before/after, slow teasing and undressing, making out, mutual oral, fucking in multiple positions, multiple pops, etc.,) then a 1/2 hour session would not work.

So decide what is important to you in a session and then try to make that happen within your financial budget.

I agree that if the offer is there from the provider take advantage especially if it fits your budget. Usually this will mean not a lot of getting to know you stuff and agree you do not get to truly connect with provider but just me nice courteous and is all good>

probably never will.  30 minutes just isn't long enough to relax and enjoy.  I like to take my time, and I can do all I need to do in an hour.  

OTOH, other than my overnights, I have only done one multi-hour (2) date.  Only reason I did it is because she was about an hour and a half away from me.

Swim

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Well, you live you learn right? I won't be doing 30 minutes anymore. Had one last night and it didn't help that I had already had a stressful day and a lot of personal issues and crap on my mind. I also have general anxiety and I was feeling very anxious as well. I could barely relax. I got a hard on for a little bit during a BBBJ but my mind and anxiety ruined everything as I looked at the clock and saw there was only 15 minutes left in the session, yet it felt like I just got there. The wonderful thing about the whole experience was that this provider ended up being so down to earth and kind and we chatted for the rest of the session and then kept chatting 15 minutes past when the session ended. I told her all about the issues I was dealing with in my personal life and she was so kind and offered me some truly great advice...apparently we BOTH have been dealing with the SAME kind of issues in our lives.

She felt so bad that I didn't I didn't even finish and yet I was forking over all this money. I told her not to feel bad because I was paying for her time first and foremost and even though it ended up being an unorthodox 30 minutes, I truly enjoyed it. She even gave me her personal cell phone # and told me if I could give her a call if I ever needed some advice or if I was struggling with the issues that we talked about. I was blown away. Hell, she could have just been doing this because she felt really bad and wanted to get me the hell out of there. Maybe. I don't care. It was nice to see a provider being so genuine and caring even though my anxiety got the best of me. I now know never to do 30 minute sessions if my goal to get off and have a great sexual experience. It isn't enough time.

You just pointed out another very good reason for not going for 30 minute sessions.  Your mind was not totally relaxed and thinking about the matter at hand.

From reading your last paragraph, it sounds like you found a very wonderful lady.  The best thing you can do is book her again, but this time for at least an hour.  Also suggest that you not go directly to her right after getting off of work.  If it's possible, give yourself some time to unwind before going to see her.  Go home and take a shower if you can.  If this isn't possible due to home situation, maybe go to the mall, or even to your fave pub for a beer or drink to relax before heading to see her.

Swim

You will find many wonderful ladies in this business. We are very understanding and nonjudgemental. Sometimes we can tell that our new gentlemen friends need us for alot more than the obvious.

A hot porn star, some fun, and some good advice.  Stress can be a killer.  Being on the newbie board you are new to this.  I will do a 30 minute to try out a new provider but I like the hour much more as if you connect it gets way past the mechanic aspects of sex. I have had a few where 30 minutes was almost too long but still left with at least a grin.    I will tell you there is nothing wrong with a 30 minute session with a hot young thing when you leave with a big smile.  I am a day guy so my planning works around the session not trying to finish other things to make it there on time.

I'm guessing I'm not the only one who has had experiences like this? Where they just couldn't relax and perform? The whole thing was probably just a disaster waiting to happen. I was running late because I got held in a meeting at work. Then I drove into the downtown of a city, which is not for me, I absolutely loathe driving in city traffic. The parking situation was a pain in the ass. I didn't have time to get a drink at the bar...I was sweating when I went up to the room and my legs were even shaking. LOL. In hindsight I should have known this would be a disaster. Now I worry that the next time the same thing will happen, even if I do book a full hour. Any advice on how to be more relaxed next time?

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I say this having never done a 30 minute session but I am serious considering switching to that for new providers.  In Columbus, there's a shortage of high end girls that really know how to fill an hour.  I've met with a number of girls for an hour who only allow 1 pop and start to get dressed, rushing me out the door.

Recently I met with a girl who is extremely well reviewed.  In our initial texts she asked if I wanted 60 or 30.  I said I prefer 60 because I like to enjoy the whole hour and hate getting rushed out after one.  I know girls, especially ones who I haven't met with, hate explicit texts.  It sets off their LE radar so that's as far as I wanted to go.  She responded, Oh no, I would never do that, you'd get the whole hour with me.  Of course, we met and feeling comfortable that I had a whole hour, I popped early so I'd have some time to hang out and recover for a second pop.  Boom, her clothes were back on and she was on the phone to someone else and we were maybe 20 minutes into the session.  After 10 minutes on the phone, I get the look from her like "Why are you still here??"  I dressed and left.  

So...I think in the future, if a girl offers 30 minutes, I'm going to take it.  Then, if the chemistry is there and I want to see her again, I'll ask about future sessions and specifically question if multiple pops are offered in longer meetings.  Or even ask if she has time to extend the current one.  It will save me a lot of grief imho.