I read some reviews and I notice that in a lot of reviews the hobbyist usually lead the way like push the provider down for a bj or position them for a doggy. Is that usually standard procedure or is it better to be more gentle and just speak to the provider on what you want and then see if she agrees? Also, I read some reviews where the hobbyist just dfk the provider, is it better to just try all the moves on her rather than ask for this or that. And wouldn't it be awkward if you keep asking if you can do this or if you can do that during the whole time you are with the provider?
Sonny, don't over-think it. Let the session flow, don't jam your tongue down her throat at the door...like any situation, start slow and read her moves and mood. About "pushing her down" and "positioning" them...much more figurative than literal. These girls are pros, if she is giving you a BJ and you reach for her ass she will move...if you are standing together and you have a raging hard-on...she going to move down for a BJ. You will in a very subtle way know what is not on the menu, just give her a chance to tactfully tell you to stop through her movements.
The biggest difference between the civie dating and the hobby is that you know what the outcome will be going in. Let the lady set the tempo and go with the flow. If you have read her reviews, you should pretty much know what to expect as well as what is not on the menu.
I almost always let the lady take the lead. I personally like it and it also makes them feel more comfortable and in control of the situation. The comments to OP are all right on. You should let things flow naturally unless the provider states she likes you to be aggressive or wants you to take control. That is fairly rare on first dates, but you might find that to happen more likely on repeat dates with that particular lady. By the 3rd or 4th she may be comfortable enough to hand the reigns to you. Once again, YMMV.
Actually my ladies usually keep things moving if I say nothing. If I want to try something I whisper "How about doggie?" & She appreciates to suggestion & decides how she wants to proceed. I have never "positioned" a lady without asking first. How would she even know to co-operate? Assuming she's agreeable. I never ask for anything not on her menu... I've never been disappointed. We try everything... not everything meshes but we try & move on if our bodys do fit. When trying a new move, let her lead. DFK is one, let her lead. DT BJs... let her lead. If you choke her, neither of you will have a good time. skb
Sometimes they really like and need to be directed. I have had a few that are really slow to start and depending how long your dream is this could cut into the fun!! If things aren't moving at the speed you like ,weather it be too slow or too fast, she isn't a mind reader and won't know unless you tell her.It could be body language as well as verbal.Be nice and always respectful about it but you are the client and it is in her best interest to make you as "happy" as she can.
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