If you're looking for, or wanting to convey some, information that is not necessarily for the whole universe, PM the member.

Discretion is the better part of valor, better to err on the side of backchannel than to make a fool of yourself in front of everyone.  I know, I've been there.

Hope this helps.

allows you to get more information you may want or need to make good decisions.

One thing to remember. You can send any member a PM but they can't read it unless they have a VIP membership.

thirsty