i was just wondering since im new to this and this is a serious concern. i know by doing this we are all at risk but i want to know if there are providers that know they have something and they still offer the service without protecting themselves or their clients (ex. cover bj if they know they might transmitt something by giving it uncover etc) ??? and is there anybody out there that might have gotten something from a provider? what advice would u give to someone like me newbie to this??  thanx!!

This topic has been recently discussed a couple of times, click on the links below, the threads are actually on page 2. You can learn alot if you just take a few minutes and read the last few pages of this board.

Whether in this hobby or elsewhere, any person who knowingly transmits an STD would be lower than dirt in most anyone's book. Personally I think if you stay with well-reviewed ladies your odds are much better than picking up some civie chick in a bar, but I am no doctor.

http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=40167&boardID=33&page=2

And although he doesn't know of my hobbying, he said even with many different partners, if you are engaging in heterosexual, protected intercourse, you are way, way down on the ladder of risk. In other words, you shouldn't worry too much. Just stick to well-reviewed ladies, be careful, clean, and smart. And most importantly...have fun!

It seems to me that there is the risk of an STD with almost any woman with whom you become sexual, whether it be a provider, someone you take home from a bar, or even a new girlfriend. I can't think of any woman who wouldn't pose some possible risk unless you just have sexless dates for a very long time (or ask everyone to be tested first), or you find an ex-nun (provided she's kept her vows). Even a man's own wife can can cheat. Of course, you multiply that risk by the number of women you have sex with.

And the same goes for women women regarding men.