Newbie - FAQ

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clce101 1630 reads
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So I can't find the article I wanted to link, but most of the general advice is for newbies to research, stay away from bp, and see a well reviewed provider, and get verified to start hobby-ing to build up references.  

My question is more on the content or findings of my research.  So let's say I do a search and find a provider I am interested in.  When I search her phone number through one if not multiple search engines and I find other ads.  Like for instance one lady I found an ad on bp. but that did not discourage me from inquiring about seeing her.  She has 20+ reviews on here and some of the reviewers have written lots of reviews about her.  I also see that she has ads up on eros, eroticmugshot, escortads, and her personal website.  When I search her pictures I only find them on her other ads.  

As far as research goes is that all I can do?  
Is there something I am not doing that I should be doing?
What key things should I be looking for in doing my research?
Since she has different prices on different ads and I really don't want to talk about donations should I believe that I should go with the  rate listed on her personal website?
If she seems open to doing more than what is listed on her website when and how should that be discussed/brought up?  I'm figuring after a few sessions?
Would a concern or issue be about a name change?

Thoughts/suggestions/opinions?

Thanks in advance!

ROGM 337 reads
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Well you pretty much have done all you can. You looked up her Reviews and looked up all of her Reviews. The next step is make an appointment and see her. I usually Discuss Specifics when I meet her in person.

impposter 49 Reviews 276 reads
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You seem to have been fairly thorough and diligent and there are no red flags in the case you describe.  

You can check Date-Check and P411 to see if she is listed there, too.  

You can check your local Forum and your local AD listings to see if she participates in discussions.  To me, a recent ad on TER is somehow more fresh and reliable than a 6-month old leftover on BP.  And sometimes they post TER specials, not always listed on the webpage ads.

In cases where there are still lingering questions, you can send a PM to a recent reviewer and ask for info. I'm thinking of an example: old 2011 review says "crooked teeth, needs work" but new 2013 reviews don't say anything about teeth at all; you can't get it up for crooked teeth; you PM a recent 2013 reviewer and ask if she had her teeth straightened.  I've used PM to ask for clarification where things CLAIMED in a review were allegedly 100% off the table in ads and other reviews.

You AND the recipient BOTH need VIP to send and receive PMs.  

Good luck and Happy Hobbying

hiddenhills 143 Reviews 262 reads
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swimtrekr 59 Reviews 255 reads
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The only question I see, is the price thing.  You could tell her you saw her ad on site x and ask if that is the correct donation for her time.

Girls change names all the time for various reasons.  If she has as many reviews as you indicate I would not worry about it.  If you searched her pics and only found them on her ads/site, I would not be concerned about that either.

Relax and enjoy.

Swim

ellesa504 80 Reviews 174 reads
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Everything that's been shared is useful.  I typically will go through the forums, P411, etc., but a few additional things I'll typically do for someone that has no review:

1. http://www.google.com/images - if you mouse over the camera, you can paste the URL of a picture onto it.  Not that non-genuine pictures are always an indication of fraud, but it's a start.  It sometimes will also lead you to other things to let you know she's legit if she uses a picture she's used someplace else.

2. Google her #.  Yep, I used it as a verb, ugh.  But just search using the format xxx-xxx-xxxx and you'll be surprised what comes up.  I once found a provider that was also selling a washer/dryer on craigslist.

3. http://www.spokeo.com - no, I'm not a stalker and I really don't want to take things outside of where they should be, but it's nice to know that the # you were given (if not a GV, Line2, etc) is that of a 45 year old manpimp.  IMHO, Spokeo's monthly $3.95 cost for unlimited searches is worth it.  It's also let me help more than one provider realize she needs to abstract herself with GV.  Nothing ingratiates you more than someone knowing you're concerned about their privacy.  Just advice, wait till after the session to mention it and be tactful and show concern.

Ever piece of the puzzle when doing research gives you the opportunity to detect a "red" flag.  The last time I was burned, I failed to be diligent and after the fact went through checks that would have if done prevented me from calling her.

Good luck!

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