have been going to AMP's for 10+ years.  Nobody is willing to book me bc i have no refrences.  Any tips?

There are some traps, but if you stay with high rated agencies, you will get appointments without traps. You will have to supply some personal information such a DL and maybe a business card or show an unused return airline ticket. High rated agencies are typically willing to act as references to other agencies and indies once they have developed a comfort level with you.

Also try some verification services.(you'll need at least one provider reference)

I suggest seeing a provider who is newbie friendly!(like myself)...everyone has to start somewhere! Just be careful and try to find ladies who have some good reviews.