Thanks, point taken -w- the kissing. I've actually been in the hobby for about 9 months now. I didn't even know TER existed and then didn't realize it's importance until about a month ago. I've had some bad experiences already. Fake pictures, cash and dash, expecting an hour and getting 15 minutes with a girl with bad attitude and BO.
During that time I've learned to navigate BP and read the signs much better. There are exactly 7 girls in my half of the state listed on BP but not on TER that I would consider seeing, though I do understand fail is always a possibility. The TER girls I'm looking forward to visiting are two hour girls. The BP ladies I will still occasionally take a chance on an hour visit. Wish I had found this place and paid for VIP 9 months ago... but BP has it's uses and it's adventurous to take one for the team occasionally. Thanks for the replies and advice, I'm beginning to like TER a lot.For the non TER reviewed girls, is it okay to ask if they like to kiss or would that fall under 'explicit talk'? I think it could potentially bother some providers to discuss it over the phone, but is it a deal breaker?
First off, read the self help center, then get VIP so you can research the reviewed ladies. If you find a provider you like, she may have reviews on other review sites whose names I am not allowed to mention. But, as BPS said, as a newbie, do NOT see someone with no reviews anywhere, there are too many quality well-reviewed providers to take a chance like that.
If it has anything sexually related, and kissing does, do not ask about it over the phone. You are likely to get hung up on. If you do the proper research on her, you should not have to ask that question.
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Thanks, point taken -w- the kissing. I've actually been in the hobby for about 9 months now. I didn't even know TER existed and then didn't realize it's importance until about a month ago. I've had some bad experiences already. Fake pictures, cash and dash, expecting an hour and getting 15 minutes with a girl with bad attitude and BO.
During that time I've learned to navigate BP and read the signs much better. There are exactly 7 girls in my half of the state listed on BP but not on TER that I would consider seeing, though I do understand fail is always a possibility. The TER girls I'm looking forward to visiting are two hour girls. The BP ladies I will still occasionally take a chance on an hour visit. Wish I had found this place and paid for VIP 9 months ago... but BP has it's uses and it's adventurous to take one for the team occasionally.
Thanks for the replies and advice, I'm beginning to like TER a lot.
I would do the same. I think his approach to the gal in question is critical though. Explaining the situation to a girl just as he did here could be helpful. And with many girls, the minimums are not always followed by the girls themselves. Bending certain rules from time to time is common.
Sometimes her response will depend on the quality of his refs, his demeanor/approach, the differences between girls etc etc etc but I do understand the general point you are making.
At least not from the guys' perspective. That said, it's one of those pet peeves a lot of us have. I get asked occasionally if I'll do a 30min or "short stay," which is basically akin to asking for a blow-n-go at half price. If I wanted to offer 30min dates, I would (and I would assume that ladies with a 2hr minimum would offer 1hr dates if they wanted to). Essentially, it makes the guy asking appear cheap.
Now if you wouldn't book more than an hour with a 2hr minimum lady anyway, then I guess there's no reason to worry about what sort of impression you make on her. Repeat clients are much more likely to curry that sort of favor. I'd just advise against it if one hopes to make a good first impression, ya know?
but most likely will turn their nose up at a thirty minute offer. As Jack said, "it can't hurt to ask"
The idea is that if the girl is reviewed and I'm likely to enjoy the experience, I want to visit them for two hours. If I'm unsure I might take a chance on 1 hour and see how it goes.
I could easily avoid non-reviewed girls altogether and perhaps I'll start doing that, but I'm not exactly a newbie any more and have some level of proficiency in navigating BP and reading between the lines. There are a variety of criteria that need to be met before I will call a non-reviewed girl
Well several people have misread so I could have worded better. It's not that I'm cheap. If a girl is reviewed and I like the review I have no problem booking 2 hours, in fact I would prefer it because one hour is never enough.
But if I see an ad and the girl hasn't been reviewed I might book a 1 hour appointment, and then follow up with something longer if we have a good time. Honestly though over the last couple days I've added 30 reviews to my favorites list so I really have no need to use BP any more.
see well reviewed ladies who have multiple reviews from established hobbyists. Otherwise, you may/will be disappointed.
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