at least until you have met her once and you are both comfortable with one another.

Having a TER handle does not mean you're not a damn cop. Anyone can get a handle, or two, or five if they know how to abuse the system. Don't say anything to anyone that you don't want repeated back to you or posted in public...just leave it at that.

before I see an escort and usually ask for an appointment on the first email/pm I send her. Nothing ever explicit, if you can't figure out  what the lady has to offer by reading her reviews and website, I suggest you just move on. Remember you don't want to be labeled a tire kicker, which after a few pm exchanges's with no appointment scheduled you certainly will.

just read her reviews, web sites, ads, pictures.  Use PMs to confirm that you are a TER member.

I just got an email this week from a guy asking when he could st5ick his c**k in my p**sy etc. etc... and I told him no way will I see him! I do not discuss my session before it happens, and you can read my reviews for the guys interpretations. Why would I have an incriminating conversation like that??